What should a guy do if he can't talk to women? (therapy, attractive)

[bson1257]

It is literally impossible for me to talk to women that I find attractive. Should I get therapy or get some medication?

[D217]

You could get drunk...

[robertpolyglot]

Get a pet.

[rtandc]

Talk to the ugly ones.......

[DavieJ89]

Originally Posted by bson1257

It is literally impossible for me to talk to women that I find attractive. Should I get therapy or get some medication?

Why do you say its impossible?

Dude....this time last year, I was in the SAME situation as you....and you know what I did?

Get ready for the BIG secret.....

The secret as to why other men are successful with women yet you arent....

The secret that could potentially get you liad TONIGHT.....

The secret that could change your life....

And that secret IIIIIISSSSS (drumroll please)

TALK TO WOMEN LIKE AS IF THEY ARE THE NORMAL PEOPLE THEY REALLY ARE! <<<<<<<<<BING BING BING BING BING, WE HAVE A WINNER FOLKS!

If you simply approach a woman and talk to her as if she were a friend, you will find things go MUCH smoother. Try it seriously, it will work. It did for me, I got 3 numbers this past weekend when I went out

[Rakin]

Masturbate the rest of your life ?

Yes, see a counselor. (and practice)

[robertpolyglot]

Originally Posted by rtandc

Talk to the ugly ones.......

Don't do that. It'll make you depressed.

[jobaba]

Originally Posted by bson1257

It is literally impossible for me to talk to women that I find attractive. Should I get therapy or get some medication?

In what context?

At work? At school? At bars or at parties or in public?

If at work or school, just socialize in groups with them and eventually you'll warm up to them and vice versa and it will seem more normal.

If at bars and parties, and in public, that's just normal. Even smooth dudes get nervous approaching. Liquor helps.

[Cyber Surfer]

Sounds like you're insecure, I'm not a therapist from any means and I only try to help through experience and observing others.

Whatever is giving you this fear, seek it out and squash it. Do you feel embarrassed or care what others will say or do if you're talking to them? Try to get to her when she's alone and keep it simple. Small talk usually works.

If she dismisses you in a negative way, don't dwell on it. Chances are you dodged a bullet.

[VTHokieFan]

Originally Posted by bson1257

It is literally impossible for me to talk to women that I find attractive. Should I get therapy or get some medication?

You should just talk to women. "Hi how are you." Then build.