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Old 09-04-2012, 10:06 PM
 
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Guys where do you stand on this? Is a woman insecure or super vain if she runs out to have breast implants? Outside of Reconstructive surgery, I mean. I hear a lot of women say they do it for themselves, but is that a front for wanting more attention from the opposite sex?

I know lots of women who say that if a man had

∙ Pectoral Implants for a nice chest
∙ Leg-Lengthening surgery to be taller
∙ Hair Transplant surgery to rid baldness
∙ Nose Jobs
∙ Face Lift

All valid because baldness, short height for example are a deal breaker for most women. Maybe less so a guy who has a not so great body (but at least that can be dealt with naturally)

They'd run for the hills saying something like the guy was too into himself or too vain, even though the women are okay with doing it for themselves.

There was a special on 20/20 recently about increasing plastic surgery for men.

This is not really about men though, but isn't that yet another double standard?

 
Old 09-04-2012, 10:11 PM
 
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If it's reconstructive like she was deformed somehow and needed the operation to get back to normal I could understand. If it's just surgery because she wanted bigger boobs and felt the need to have bags implanted in her chest to achieve this then I am definitely NOT into it.
 
Old 09-04-2012, 10:11 PM
 
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Guys where do you stand on this? Is a woman insecure or super vain if she runs out to have breast implants? Outside of Reconstructive surgery, I mean. I hear a lot of women say they do it for themselves, but is that a front for wanting more attention from the opposite sex?

I know lots of women who say that if a man had

∙ Pectoral Implants for a nice chest
∙ Leg-Lengthening surgery to be taller
∙ Hair Transplant surgery to rid baldness
∙ Nose Jobs
∙ Face Lift

All valid because baldness, short height for example are a deal breaker for most women. Maybe less so a guy who has a not so great body (but at least that can be dealt with naturally)

They'd run for the hills saying something like the guy was too into himself or too vain, even though the women are okay with doing it for themselves.

There was a special on 20/20 recently about increasing plastic surgery for men.

This is not really about men though, but isn't that yet another double standard?

oh good grief...
 
Old 09-04-2012, 10:13 PM
 
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This thread is going to be so much bickering.
 
Old 09-04-2012, 10:13 PM
 
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I don't like my women too fake.
 
Old 09-04-2012, 10:13 PM
 
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since when do they care? they would rather date women with fake, silicon body parts then real, imperfect ones, that's for sure.
 
Old 09-04-2012, 10:14 PM
 
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This thread is going to be so much bickering.
That's how all threads on the Relationship forum are though.
 
Old 09-04-2012, 10:15 PM
 
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If it's reconstructive like she was deformed somehow and needed the operation to get back to normal I could understand. If it's just surgery because she wanted bigger boobs and felt the need to have bags implanted in her chest to achieve this then I am definitely NOT into it.
I understand this as well. Otherwise.........

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oh good grief...
Ditto

So much insecurity in some of these threads/posts which can be termed better not say.
 
Old 09-04-2012, 10:17 PM
 
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I understand this as well. Otherwise.........



Ditto

So much insecurity in some of these threads/posts which can be termed better not say.
Self absorbed insecure people are damn unattractive, no matter what kind of plastic surgery they have
 
Old 09-04-2012, 10:19 PM
 
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Well maybe my point was more about whether the women in question are insecure or not and the double standard. I personally don't wish to get any kind of surgery, maybe to remove a wrinkle or two when I get older, but it looks like I have decent genes and am holding up well

When I was 25, there was this 21 yr old woman I used to work with who used to stare at a pic of Pamela Anderson in a magazine all day on her lunch breaks and talk about how she wanted bigger boobs. She was already a 34D. She ended up putting a down payment on implants and went to a EEE. She was HS educated, forget about college, get the implants ya know? She would then go to the beach and wear these tight bikinis and loved all of the attention she got from men (I'm not assuming, she told us this and we actually hung out at Brighton Beach and watched her do this lol).

But if a man came up to you and said, hey, I used to be 5'6, now I'm 5'10! Or he said, I hate working out, so now I have a chest I'm comfortable with, or I used to feel rain drop on my head the minute it rained, and now I love my hair, would you be willing to date him, or would be be insecure?
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