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For about a two month period, they'd come outside to settle their issues.
Him screaming, "I don't love you. I been stopped loving you. I haven't had feelings for you in YEARS!"
Her, crying and begging him not to leave. Saying how she couldn't live without him, blah, blah.
Sadly, she even started taking her anger/pain out on the kids. I began hearing her yell at the kids. There was one time he called the cops on her, saying she went as far as to hit their daughter (about 5 years old).
She was granted her wish. Over 6 months later, they are still together. If you seen them now, you'd never guess they had went through such. They are back like one happy family.
My problem is: Once a man has told me that he been stopped loving me and wants a divorce, I could never truly feel loved by him again. A part of me believes those words were true. He only stayed because the other woman wasn't as serious about being together.
What are your thoughts? Do you think there is really love on his part or he's still there because the other woman turned him down? Would you be able to put those harsh words behind you and feel loved again?
Bad grammar, and people say mean and hurtful things when they are angry and in the moment, but when they settle down and think about it they regret it.
I can understand why she is staying with him.. With kids and all, it's not easy to end a marriage. However, I just cannot help but wonder after her husband saying what he did, how she could just let it go. She must be insecure now and perhaps may not be as trustful as before.
At the same time, nothing is impossible to get over if both partners are willing to work it ....
Yes, I feel the same. I couldn't imagine being married and having all my kids by someone, then having to start over.
At the same time, his words would haunt me.
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Originally Posted by Timewaster99
I can understand why she is staying with him.. With kids and all, it's not easy to end a marriage. However, I just cannot help but wonder after her husband saying what he did, how she could just let it go. She must be insecure now and perhaps may not be as trustful as before.
At the same time, nothing is impossible to get over if both partners are willing to work it ....
The things he told her in anger would not be something I could easily get past. He "has not loved her for years?" If he was that desperately unhappy then, he probably still is not really happy. It will only be a matter of time before it blows up again.
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