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Who cares what other people say is acceptable though? I don't. Before I met my SO I liked men. Many, many, many men. I was safe, I was responsible, and I had fun. Why complain about the double standard? Just do what you want and screw people who disagree. (Not literally; that would add to your number )
^This^
Just be you regardless. If you think there's something wrong with having safe casual sex with many different partners, don't do it. If you don't have a problem with it, have at it. But don't let a potentially great thing slip away due to some preconceived arbitrary number you have in your head (too low or too high) . Hell, don't even ask!
Pre-marital sex is a sin! You guys are all going to HELLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!
I never understood why some Christians elevate certain sins over others. I'm guilty of many others as well that put the fear of God in me far more than a little hanky panky.
I never understood why some Christians elevate certain sins over others. I'm guilty of many others as well that put the fear of God in me far more than a little hanky panky.
where were people talking about Christianity or pre-marital sex being a sin in here?
For all of you who think that men and women are equal in the pursuit for sex I'll break it down one more time.
What does it take for a man to get laid.
1. Good looks
2. Charm
3. Money/nice car
4. Nice clothes
5. Cologne
6. The ability to pretend to be interested in something their not for long periods of time.
7. Knowing what to say and when to say it.
8. Doing all these things while in the presence of a women who is intoxicated.
9. Doing all these things while fending off other guys that may be trying to get the women also.
10. In other words it takes a lot of something called EFFORT!
What does it take for a women to "get laid" if you want to call it that.
1. A pulse
No judging. Just a preference. More sexual partners USUALLY means more hang ups and emotional issues that I have to deal with. Not happening. Don't worry ladies. There somebody out there for everyone.
No judging. Just a preference. More sexual partners USUALLY means more hang ups and emotional issues that I have to deal with. Not happening. Don't worry ladies. There somebody out there for everyone.
Or, you know, that the girl likes sex and doesn't like commitments.
Some women become sexually promiscuous as a result of a rape or sexual molestation. This type of "acting out" has been well documented in the medical field. It's considered a reaction and is at times thought of as a way of the woman gaining control of her sexuality that she felt she lost in the attack.
So by that thinking, a woman who "acted out" because of a rape or sexual abuse is somehow considered a putanne because she had multiple partners? What would you say then?
If you need a reference, here ya go: Some report inhibited sexual response and flashbacks to the rape during intercourse. Conversely, some rape survivors become hyper-sexual or promiscuous following sexual attacks, sometimes as a way to reassert a measure of control over their sexual relations.
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