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Old 09-21-2012, 10:34 AM
 
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i had a crush on this girl. I have asked one of her friends to ask my crush whether she likes me or not. Her friend said that i'm not her type. She knows that i like her, But i havent actually confessed to her yet. So should i?
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Old 09-21-2012, 10:38 AM
 
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No. She'll put you in the dreaded friendzone, and trust me, you don't want to be there.
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Old 09-21-2012, 10:39 AM
 
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i had a crush on this girl. I have asked one of her friends to ask my crush whether she likes me or not. Her friend said that i'm not her type. She knows that i like her, But i havent actually confessed to her yet. So should i?
How old are you? This sounds very junior high to me

Okay, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Man up and talk directly to her. THAT might win you a few points.

Good luck.
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Old 09-21-2012, 10:42 AM
 
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Someone's "type" can be VERY flexible. Don't let her friend persuade you that you couldn't date her. But, if in fact she only goes after a certain "type", she's probably not the kind of a girl you want anyways.
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Old 09-21-2012, 10:43 AM
 
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Her friend might be wrong that you're not her type. If it's something that your crush said, then even SHE might be wrong. Just try to get with her

Sounds like you're in Highschool/JR. High. My advice would be to get with any girl that wants you for rpactice and to build some nice memories. At your age your desires and personality are still pretty raw, so you don't truly know what you want.
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Old 09-21-2012, 10:44 AM
 
Location: NW San Antonio
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i had a crush on this girl. I have asked one of her friends to ask my crush whether she likes me or not. Her friend said that i'm not her type. She knows that i like her, But i havent actually confessed to her yet. So should i?
damn, aint you seen any of those movies?? Your friend that asked her has a crush on you! She didn't tell her and now she wants you to stop pursuing the other girl, she's telling you, look at me!
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Old 09-21-2012, 10:44 AM
 
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No. She'll put you in the dreaded friendzone, and trust me, you don't want to be there.
Wont i be in her friend zone even though i dont confess to her...
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Old 09-21-2012, 10:46 AM
 
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you'll have a billion other crushes in your life. Don't sweat it and move on. If it gives you a sense of closure, talk to her directly though that rarely ever works out good even if you're her type. Best thing is to ask her to hang out or something but still, don't waste too much time on one girl.
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Old 09-21-2012, 10:48 AM
 
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Wont i be in her friend zone even though i dont confess to her...
Good point!!!

You are right. You probably should confess then.
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Old 09-21-2012, 10:52 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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you'll have a billion other crushes in your life. Don't sweat it and move on. If it gives you a sense of closure, talk to her directly though that rarely ever works out good even if you're her type. Best thing is to ask her to hang out or something but still, don't waste too much time on one girl.
This advice is ridiculous. If your worried she may reject you, try flirting and making your intentions clear. Do not listen to the friend. Just because her friend thinks you aren't her type doesn't mean that she wont like you. You sound young, go for the gold!
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