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Old 09-26-2012, 10:14 AM
 
Location: Hell, NY
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My ex girlfriend hates me because I didn't like that she cheated on me with 12 guys while we dated for a year. Only a true hoe would do that. I'd rather watch her get hit by a steam roller than give a damn about her again. There are very few women I consider to be hoes, but she earned the status all by herself.
No offense, but you stood by after the first one. Not just one, but two, three, four, five, and on and on and on. You should hate yourself for playing the sucker. No wonder she cheated so much, you allowed it. That's one definate deal breaker that has always been a steady with me. You cheat on me once, and you're gone. No forgiveness for that one. She obviously had no respect for you, and you made it that way. I hope in the future you kick a girl to the curb after the first time. Don't be a door mat and you won't get walked all over.

People will treat you the way you let them treat you. Let that be a lesson. I hope that you have changed your thought process. Good luck in the future.
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Old 09-26-2012, 10:42 AM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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I actually found out about the affairs all at once. I'm not a door mat.
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Old 09-26-2012, 03:17 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I don't hate any of my exes, but my last one hates my guts.

That's what happens when you refuse to believe you had any responsibility in the demise of a relationship.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:47 PM
 
Location: North NJ by way of Brooklyn, NY
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Hate is a pretty strong word.

I would say I have disdain for 2 of my exes.

One was my psycho ex, the other screwed me out of a lot of money leaving me in debt.

I'm pretty sure my ex fiancee hates me. Oh well, I think I'll live.
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Old 09-26-2012, 04:52 PM
 
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im friends or friendly with all of my ex's. i have no reason to hate any them, they are all great people who just happened to be wrong for me or them.

i wish them all the best in life.
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Old 09-26-2012, 05:24 PM
 
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Not giving a flying **** is the best.
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Old 09-26-2012, 06:47 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Not giving a flying **** is the best.
Sure is!
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Old 09-26-2012, 09:59 PM
 
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I despise my husband's ex, even though I've never met her. She is a stupid, lazy deadbeat who makes the rest of us look bad. I have my sh*t together and take care of myself. I have no use for women who don't.
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Old 09-27-2012, 12:34 AM
 
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I always try to be nice and talk to anyone that wants to talk to me, but if they try and manipulate me or make me feel awkward or uncomfortable in any way, or try to get back with me even though I told them I want to move on, then I have no choice but to ignore them.
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Old 09-27-2012, 10:42 AM
 
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I don't see any point in holding onto spite or hate for an ex.

There's no room for that toxicity in my life.

I realize people date and break up for multiple reasons. Why hold onto so much hurt when in the end, you want happiness?

Isn't that really just asking for another dose of heartache? It's like self-inflicted and unnecessary pain.

Forgive. Let go. Move on. And, I'm pretty sure deep down, you can find special moments in that relationship that probably taught you an important lesson despite despair.
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