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Limited financial opportunities? Either you know how to make money or you don't. I'm not sure what that has to do with someone else and it has nothing to do with your relationship situation.
Kids? Kids just cost money and take up a ton of your time for decades so you're not really missing out. However, if you're really that hard up for kids, go adopt one or go find a surrogate.
No sex? Well, that's why escorts, massage parlors, and streetwalkers exist; in America and abroad.
No company? Go find a chick that's just as lonely as you are. Plenty are out here.
The only chance I have of not being poor is if my spouse knows how to manage money. Making it, I can do. However, spending it comes much more naturally to me...
I'm not sure I'd want to raise a kid without him/her having a mother...a good one at that...
And I'd never pay for sex. Now that would be miserable...that's "my pick"...not some merriam webster definition...
The only chance I have of not being poor is if my spouse knows how to manage money. Making it, I can do. However, spending it comes much more naturally to me...
I'm not sure I'd want to raise a kid without him/her having a mother...a good one at that...
And I'd never pay for sex. Now that would be miserable...
1. Then learn how to manage money, have some self-control, and stop making mistakes; it's not rocket science. Plenty of information is available online.
2. A kid really only needs one very good parent. All this stuff about having two parents isn't all that necessary if a kid has one very good parent and is raised in a good environment. The problem with single parents households has more to do with the crappy environment (poverty, drugs, gangs, poor schools, etc) that most of those kids are raised in than the fact that there's only one parent.
3. What's so bad about paying for sex? You'll be paying for sex anyway if you ever get a girlfriend as dating and relationships cost money. It may not be as direct as paying for a hooker, but in the end, you'll probably end up spending more on a girlfriend than on several hookers. But of course, if you're totally against getting hookers, then that's your choice and you're free to do as you wish.
"what can you do?" What a foolish question. You can change. If you don't like who you are (and you appear not to) then do something about it. You are the only one who can.
There are like maybe a grand total of a hundred people doing anything of significant value with their lives...I'm in good company the way I see it.
That's not the case. There are at least thousands, if not hundreds of thousands (millions?) of people doing valuable things with their lives. From people working in homeless shelters/soup kitchens, to various charity organizations, to live saving research, people fostering animals, etc. Don't be such a pessimist.
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The only chance I have of not being poor is if my spouse knows how to manage money. Making it, I can do. However, spending it comes much more naturally to me...
I'm not sure I'd want to raise a kid without him/her having a mother...a good one at that...
And I'd never pay for sex. Now that would be miserable...
I think I saw another thread of yours in the W&E forum. If you could manage to work with any kind of consistency, if you could master some discipline in that area, it would be a good start to getting what you want.
You don't like yourself at all. That is clear in your post. And you are too lazy to do anything about it. You will definitely die alone unless you work to effect a change.
1. Then learn how to manage money, have some self-control, and stop making mistakes; it's not rocket science. Plenty of information is available online.
2. A kid really only needs one very good parent. All this stuff about having two parents isn't all that necessary if a kid has one very good parent and is raised in a good environment. The problem with single parents households has more to do with the crappy environment (poverty, drugs, gangs, poor schools, etc) that most of those kids are raised in than the fact that there's only one parent.
3. What's so bad about paying for sex? You'll be paying for sex anyway if you ever get a girlfriend as dating and relationships cost money. It may not be as direct as paying for a hooker, but in the end, you'll probably end up spending more on a girlfriend than on several hookers. But of course, if you're totally against getting hookers, then that's your choice and you're free to do as you wish.
Too hard to study for it...I'm lazy, remember?
I don't agree..from personal experience.
Umm...of the gfs I've had it's never felt like I was paying for sex. Actually, it's never felt like I was paying for anything...just living life which takes money...but life is worth it...generally..
You don't like yourself at all. That is clear in your post. And you are too lazy to do anything about it. You will definitely die alone unless you work to effect a change.
1. Then learn how to manage money, have some self-control, and stop making mistakes; it's not rocket science. Plenty of information is available online.
2. A kid really only needs one very good parent. All this stuff about having two parents isn't all that necessary if a kid has one very good parent and is raised in a good environment. The problem with single parents households has more to do with the crappy environment (poverty, drugs, gangs, poor schools, etc) that most of those kids are raised in than the fact that there's only one parent.
3. What's so bad about paying for sex? You'll be paying for sex anyway if you ever get a girlfriend as dating and relationships cost money. It may not be as direct as paying for a hooker, but in the end, you'll probably end up spending more on a girlfriend than on several hookers. But of course, if you're totally against getting hookers, then that's your choice and you're free to do as you wish.
Point 2. Why speak with authority on children and what it takes to raise them when you have zero experience, wisdom, and knowledge when it comes to raising children?
3. Just because a relationship constitutes access to sex for you doesn't mean all men are as limited in their interpersonal relationships with other humans.
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What a stupid assumption. 
