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You go on these online dating sites and it seems like every moderately attractive woman receives 10,000 messages a day
You go in real life and every moderately attractive woman seems to have 10,000 options
Do men have any value at all in the dating world? It's hard sometimes to not see the male gender as almost disposable when it comes to the dating world
It is like business. Supply and Demand.
Can you beat the competition?
Someone posts this at least once a week. And C-D women respond that they've had profiles up for weeks and get no responses, even when they "wink" at guys online, or send them a message.
Stop torturing yourself with this imaginary scenario. This is not what real life is like. It's all in your head.
Yep. I did online dating on and off for years (and seriously for the last year)and the amount of responses I had was low. I am pretty and in real life I never have a problem attracting men but online I did. I've had a few guys (offline people I know)tell me maybe I intimidated the men I was interested in, but I doubt it because I contacted them first and they deleted the message without responding.
If you want to be valued in the dating scene, you gotta be valued outside of dating. You gotta own your life, pursue your dreams and self-actualize. And maybe get off the dating sites and go buy a random woman a drink at a bar, mingle and get used to being friendly naturally without the contrived meeting that happens through dating sites.
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But Tri, you have worth, so that post isn't relevant to you.
Yeah we're reduced to a dollars and sense monetary value. Which is why I prefer to reject to the system.
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