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Nothing's wrong with doing what you like. Just understand that people are going to judge you based on conspicuous actions. Act like a party girl and people will treat you like one.
Though I'm definitely not the bookish, shy next-door girl type I've only had 2 bfs. I like partying all day long, drink spirits and yes at times I'm guilty of using slang language (and have flash online at times too) for fun.
But I've never hook-up while drunk nor ever cheated. When I'm hammered I'm just into dancing all night long and simply chill but not sleep around. And yes I also have a 3.6 GPA in college and don't really have to study a lot to do well.
I was that way too when I was a virgin (and most got confused and thought I wasn't at the time).
Okay so that's not you and pretty sure there's another like you somewhere but guess what, generally speaking, if it walks like a duck.....
Though I'm definitely not the bookish, shy next-door girl type I've only had 2 bfs. I like partying all day long, drink spirits and yes at times I'm guilty of using slang language (and have flash online at times too) for fun.
But I've never hook-up while drunk nor ever cheated. When I'm hammered I'm just into dancing all night long and simply chill but not sleep around. And yes I also have a 3.6 GPA in college and don't really have to study a lot to do well.
I was that way too when I was a virgin (and most got confused and thought I wasn't at the time).
Yet.
Because I've never seen someone who lived that kind of life who didn't eventually get into lots o'trouble. And anybody who defines themselves by their drinking habits is pretty much a gigantic red flag for a wise and perceptive individual. Hell, your screen name is a vodka for crying out loud. How lame is that?
So while I might have had a date with someone like that a couple of times while single, there was no freaking way I would have dated someone like that for the long haul.
Nothing's wrong with doing what you like. Just understand that people are going to judge you based on conspicuous actions. Act like a party girl and people will treat you like one.
As we all know JJ, the best party girls never act like party girls unless the timing is just right. Nothing worse than a drunk girl (or guy) when it comes time to have fun. Real party people don't drink that much.
I learned in my College Bartender days, drunk guys don't get laid as much as sober guys. I always played bartender to control the flow of alcohol and stayed sober.
There is a thin line between feeling good and being a drunk slob.
As we all know JJ, the best party girls never act like party girls unless the timing is just right. Nothing worse than a drunk girl (or guy) when it comes time to have fun. Real party people don't drink that much.
I learned in my College Bartender days, drunk guys don't get laid as much as sober guys. I always played bartender to control the flow of alcohol and stayed sober.
There is a thin line between feeling good and being a drunk slob.
It's true, when your drunk you have absolutely zero game.
Alot of misplaced confidence, but enunciation is out the window :P.
Ok so maybe I'm young (I'm 20) but know what I'm doing.
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Because I've never seen someone who lived that kind of life who didn't eventually get into lots o'trouble.
Then maybe I'm the exception. It's really about self-control. I don't see how hard that can be.
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Hell, your screen name is a vodka for crying out loud. How lame is that?
Finally someone figured it out. Yes, that's my favorite brand.
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So while I might have had a date with someone like that a couple of times while single, there was no freaking way I would have dated someone like that for the long haul.
That's what happened in my 2nd relationshi, which only lasted 5 months. It upset me that he would distrust me when I never cheated.
Then maybe I'm the exception. It's really about self-control. I don't see how hard that can be.
Lol. There are no exceptions. Do you think that anyone has ever planned to get themselves into trouble while drinking? Uhh, no. It happens when you are least prepared for it. Be smart and take care of yourself.
Also, I get the impression that you are new to the party scene by the way you almost seem proud of being a party girl. It's fun to drink and party with friends but defining yourself as a party girl really isn't as cool as you seem to think it is.
Lol. There are no exceptions. Do you think that anyone has ever planned to get themselves into trouble while drinking? Uhh, no. It happens when you are least prepared for it. Be smart and take care of yourself.
Also, I get the impression that you are new to the party scene by the way you almost seem proud of being a party girl. It's fun to drink and party with friends but defining yourself as a party girl really isn't as cool as you seem to think it is.
When you're 20, everything is as cool as you think it is. Everything.
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