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Old 01-15-2013, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Yes. That is why every single woman over 30 is either divorced or single. It is impossible to keep a man past 30. That's why I keep telling my husband I'm 25. I've been 25 for a long time...
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:24 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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There isn't a single man in the world who finds women over 30 attractive. Not one.
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:25 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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I am deathly afraid of getting older. It seems that when a woman approaches 30, she is no longer valuable or desirable to men as younger girls are. They'll just toss me aside and start chasing after 19 year olds. This is a very depressing state. If I get married, will my husband still lust after me or will he want to trade me in for a 20 year old??
Well, you don't have a photo in your profile, but I really liked the description. Sounds like you're what I normally go for. Of course, I'm older and I'm looking for a woman late 20's-late 30's. I think women in their 30's still look great if they take care of themselves. You just need to be smart and pick the right guy. No loyal, committed guy is going to do what you describe.
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:26 PM
 
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My impression is that you've already SEEN this happen somewhere in your extended family, or that you watch the media too much.

In most cases, the answer is NO. Most couples just grow older together. If your husband is a douche bag, and something goes to his head or he has a mid-life crisis, he may do that. Most don't. On the other hand, you may want to ditch him if you find out he's a deadbeat or dysfunctional.

Are you banking on your looks? What else do you bring to the table?
Bells.
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:27 PM
 
Location: the Sun
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I spend hundreds of dollars on anti aging products because I am paranoid about getting older...when I see girls in their teens I feel very threatened..lots of men find girls who are young as 16 attractive and even try to pursue them
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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I spend hundreds of dollars on anti aging products because I am paranoid about getting older...when I see girls in their teens I feel very threatened..lots of men find girls who are young as 16 attractive and even try to pursue them
Normal men don't do this. Hey, I hate getting older too. I still look young, but the reality is I'm not. This sounds serious enough to talk to a psychologist to find out why you're so insecure about aging and if there's something deeper contributing to it.
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:37 PM
 
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Nope.

Over 30 here and still beating em off w/ a stick...
I was going to say that, but I didn't want to sound conceited.
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:38 PM
 
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If I get married, will my husband still lust after me or will he want to trade me in for a 20 year old??
depends on the quality of the character of the husband you choose.
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:38 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I spend hundreds of dollars on anti aging products because I am paranoid about getting older...when I see girls in their teens I feel very threatened..lots of men find girls who are young as 16 attractive and even try to pursue them
Quite irrational. You don't need any anti-aging products. Get out there and live a fulfilling life, and save your money for your future.
Why do you have these extreme insecurities and irrational fears, OP? You might consider getting some counseling to help you get out of this mindset. It would be a much better use of your money.
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Old 01-15-2013, 12:38 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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I was going to say that, but I didn't want to sound conceited.
It's not conceited if it's the truth!
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