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I think most people are being too hard on the OP. I don't think that a husband desiring sex more than his wife is a revolutionary concept, and it doesn't necessarily mean there is anything wrong with the relationship either. Short answer: show her that you love her in the way that she wants to be loved, and she will be more likely to want to return the favor. Things that my husband does earlier in the day to get me in the mood include doing little sweet things to show me that he loves me (what those things are depends on your wife, and can include things like doing chores that you don't technically have to do), making passes early in the evening so that I am aware of where he wants things to go and warm up to the idea, and showing genuine interest in me and my day (not just what I can offer him sexually).
I think most people are being too hard on the OP. I don't think that a husband desiring sex more than his wife is a revolutionary concept, and it doesn't necessarily mean there is anything wrong with the relationship either.
Well, while it might not be a revolutionary concept for a husband to desire sex WITH his wife, the OP desires sex FROM his wife. Big difference there. The OP alludes that sex from his wife is something that she should "give" to him, as opposed to something they can SHARE together. He has also hinted at the fact that he may stray if she doesn't "put out". He doesn't care what mood she's in, if she has fallen ill, is on her mentrual cycle, etc. The OP seems to regard his wife as a sexual robot; no matter WHAT mood she is in, she is OBLIGATED to make her vagina available to him WHENEVER he has a sexual urge and God forbid if she doesn't.
Hard on him? I'm surprised he wasn't hung out to dry on this thread.
Have a sincere talk with her about how you feel.
If she's tired, maybe take more of the workload off of her.
Spend more time on making her happy in the bedroom.
Praise her appearance and remind her about how hot she looks all the time (make her feel sexy).
Create a relaxing, more mood-setting environment for her.
Have a sincere talk with her about how you feel.
If she's tired, maybe take more of the workload off of her.
Spend more time on making her happy in the bedroom.
Praise her appearance and remind her about how hot she looks all the time (make her feel sexy).
Create a relaxing, more mood-setting environment for her.
There are some good points here. The desire for sex - for most women, I think - starts long before you reach the bedroom. It's how they feel about the relationship - valued, loved, respected - and a lot less about technique. A caring partner outside the bedroom is usually a caring partner in the bedroom.
State what is your age and sex and marital status, then answer the following question:
Women,
What does your husband do or not do that makes you want to have sex with him?
Men,
What do you do that makes your wife have sex with you?
If you think you're having issues now just wait until menopause kicks in.
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