Why did he say that? Is he only joking? (guy, reason, texts)

[Gabriella Geramia]

Sounds pretty passive aggressive to me

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by Baldrick

So just incase it wasn't harmless your not going to contact him? If it was harmless then you wont know unless he contacts you or you contact him.

He hasn't replied to your texts saying your annoyed (no surprise really) so if it was harmless he is unlikely to text you to tell you and if it wasn't the same applies, you still wont know.

So give it up then..

I ♥ you.

[the minx]

Originally Posted by candy 87

what kind of a reply did he want??

i was already messagin him before

i messaged him sayin "i didnt really find that funny at all"

he just ignored me completely anyway

I meant attention when I said reply.

Good God. Guess you're looking for attention too.

[mlj1225]

Originally Posted by candy 87

i dont see the point of asking him that

hes just going to ignore me like he has all my other messages

im concerned by what he said in the sense that to me it makes a difference what i do next IF he wasnt joking and said that out of anger


if thats true then ill probabloy distance myself even more now

OK, then maybe leaving it alone is the best thing to do.

[candy 87]

Originally Posted by GKelly

Sounds pretty passive aggressive to me

so you don't think he was just trying to say something funny and imagined me slipping on ice and found it really amusing in his head??

[candy 87]

Originally Posted by the minx

I meant attention when I said reply.

Good God. Guess you're looking for attention too.

but he got my attention and then left it

im not saying i want attention

im saying because you said he wanted a reply from me..but you meant attention..then why wouldnt he follow it up after i said something

[OptimusPrime69]

the fact u told him "dont wait for my call" was kind of jerky...as if saying "yeah, i might call u back, but dont get ur hopes up too much"....


you're a jerk.

[candy 87]

Originally Posted by OptimusPrime69

the fact u told him "dont wait for my call" was kind of jerky...as if saying "yeah, i might call u back, but dont get ur hopes up too much"....


you're a jerk.

i said it because i was out late..and i didn't know when i would be getting home..i didnt want to be calling him at a ridiculous hour..and thats why i said "dont wait for my call"..becauise i ddnt know when id b getting home

so don't call me a jerk, you jerk

i bet you approve of what he said then...

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by candy 87

i said it because i was out late..and i didn't know when i would be getting home..i didnt want to be calling him at a ridiculous hour..and thats why i said "dont wait for my call"..becauise i ddnt know when id b getting home

so don't call me a jerk, you jerk

i bet you approve of what he said then...

Haha.

[oceangaia]

Originally Posted by candy 87

i dont want to ask him though thats the problem

see the thing is if it was just a harmless joke without any malice behind it..then ill accept it

if thats not the case then i wont speak to him for a while

I don't think the ball is in your court. Sounds like he's decided to write you off. He clearly is unconcerned that you aren't happy about that last remark. Well, he's probably delighted about it knowing he got under your skin.

You said you'd call and you didn't. But worse, you didn't just forget, you didn't just get in late, you knew darn well at the time you weren't going to call him back because you quickly added for him not to wait for the call. So saying you'd call him back was a flat out lie.

And a two minute call is far better than no call because it keeps your word and breaks the wait. When people are waiting and waiting they start to read all sorts of things into it.

He said he hoped you slip to signal he was ticked off. He added the lol so he could play it off as a joke if the need arose.