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Regarding Juan, what should I say if I dump him? Anything that won't make him hate me?
Tell him you're not his type and we'd be better off as friends. If he's already attaching himself to you then no matter what happens he's going to take it hard.
I don't want to. I was forced into this stupid dare. Once again, this wasn't my idea.
This is the part where my mother would ask me if all my friends jumped off a bridge, whether I would jump too.
You're going to hurt the guy no matter what you do. What did you think would happen? You even said your friends are likely to tell him.
DO NOT tell him it was a dare or that you were willing to hurt him for $20. You'll have to think of something. There is no easy way to hurt someone unless you are a mean and pitiless person.
You need to realize that once you graduate, you will most likely not keep in touch with many of the "friends" you have in school. So, you sound like you are more grown up than your friends. You need to get new friends, or grow a backbone and say "No" to any ideas that you know better not to do.
Please be kind when you decline to go out with him any more. And I hope you learned a lesson from this, that you have to answer to yourself first, NOT to others who could possible take you down with them.
Tell him you're not his type and we'd be better off as friends. If he's already attaching himself to you then no matter what happens he's going to take it hard.
Ok. I'll leave the ''I was dared to date you part (as well as his physical features) out.
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Originally Posted by Prince_Frog
Then I'd go and tank your friend's spines out.
I'm getting tired of them sometimes. It's like our other conversations are always either about who is the hottest guy and who isn't, our new clothes, what were the latest rumor spread out and other unimportant topic.
At least with Juan, we were talking about important things such as real life events, our favorite authors, discussing if the atoms bombs were really necessary (we both think it wasn't) and new things learned from discovery channel. It's like with him, I feel relieve from all superficial conversations. He's very smart and has a GPA of 3.87 (well mines is good too: 3.4...unlike my friends' who are in their 2.0-2.8).
Last edited by Tarmaiden; 01-30-2013 at 09:07 PM..
Ok. I'll leave the ''I was dared to date you part (as well as his physical features) out.
I'm getting tired of them sometimes. It's like our other conversations are always either about who is the hottest guy and who isn't, our new clothes, what were the latest rumor spread out and other important topic.
At least with Juan, we were talking about important things such as real life events, our favorite authors, discussing if the atoms bombs were really necessary (we both think it wasn't) and new things learned from discovery channel. It's like with him, I feel relieve from all superficial conversations.
That's because the guy you're fake-dating is far more mature than your "friends". Frankly, I don't even think they are your friends if they were harassing you into dating this guy that you have no feelings for. I think they're just using you for laughs.
Like I said, if I were in your shoes I'd lay them out like a sack of potatoes and end the friendships immediately. These don't sounds like good people to keep around, and you're better off without them.
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