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I'm confused about this girl at my job. When I first met her she seemed like she was disgusted by me. I went to shake her hand introducing myself and she was hesitant to shake my hand and it seemed as if she was put off by me.
Not a good thing, is it?
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Originally Posted by Veyron
A few days later my co workers told me she went on my facebook and she checked out my pictures with me only in my wifebeater. She told my co workers I had nice arms. Of course my co -workers ran back and told me about it. My co workers made a few jokes here and there about it and they insist she likes me.
How do you know that she really did check out your pictures and said these things. It could be your co-workers are simply winding you up, playing mischief.
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Originally Posted by Veyron
She won't even come around me or even make eye contact. Everytime I try to make small talk with her she will just walk away or blatantly ignore me. She makes a strong effort to avoid me. I'm confused. I'm not sure how I should approach her or if I should approach her at all. She is EXTREMELY attractive . . Somebody let me know what the deal is. Thanks
Her attractiveness is nothing to do with it. As someone above said, it is unwise to date someone from work.
She was in your words "disgusted" by you, hesitant to shake your hand, and you don't know for sure she checked out your pictures and complimented you. She is certainly not showing any signals of interest now. Just ignore her and move on. Find someone who respects you, who would not feel disgusted by you, who would not be so rude as to hesitate to even shake your hand and who doesn't work in the same company as you. There are plenty of women to chose from than that ignorant specimen.
Don't date someone from work.... Don't be stupid. You never date or sleep with someone in your workplace. That is your lesson from the day.
Also sack up and stop coming off as a creeper. Like the guy above said, if you carry yourself as if, the ladies will be attracted. If you come off as a creeper, like now, then they will be repulsed.
She went on my facebook and she complimented on my pictures..if she had hated me.....she would have 0 interest....
I think I know why shes keeping her distance.....
There is a way to confirm this without putting myself out there and getting myself in trouble...
I have to use some situational manipulation and some psychology
NO!!! Raena was kidding! Please leave the poor girl alone. If she wanted your attention she would be giving you VERY different signals. Are you autistic?
She went on my facebook and she complimented on my pictures..if she had hated me.....she would have 0 interest....
I think I know why shes keeping her distance.....
There is a way to confirm this without putting myself out there and getting myself in trouble...
I have to use some situational manipulation and some psychology
She's probably embarrassed as hell cuz her coworkers acted like 12 years olds and blabbed. I think you can use that to your advantage, talk to her about it directly, let her see that you just want to clear the air then give her some time to digest. A week later ask her to lunch, if she pushes back then she's probably not interested. The only caveat is she may be anti-dating-at-work. Good luck!
NO!!! Raena was kidding! Please leave the poor girl alone. If she wanted your attention she would be giving you VERY different signals. Are you autistic?
Haha. Um did you just ask if he was autistic? Damn that's harsh.
She's probably embarrassed as hell cuz her coworkers acted like 12 years olds and blabbed. I think you can use that to your advantage, talk to her about it directly, let her see that you just want to clear the air then give her some time to digest. A week later ask her to lunch, if she pushes back then she's probably not interested. The only caveat is she may be anti-dating-at-work. Good luck!
she could be just admiring u from affar
let her be and keep wht ur doing soon or enough
shell relize tht ur intristed in her
she may be a low self asteem ttype of girl
too
She's probably embarrassed as hell cuz her coworkers acted like 12 years olds and blabbed. I think you can use that to your advantage, talk to her about it directly, let her see that you just want to clear the air then give her some time to digest. A week later ask her to lunch, if she pushes back then she's probably not interested. The only caveat is she may be anti-dating-at-work. Good luck!
Fantastic advice
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