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You sound like a 15 year old who has it all figured out... but hasn't actually experienced anything in real life.
There is absolutely NO guarantee that someone will be in love with you for the rest of your lives. We all hope for it, sure...but there is still no guarantee. My grandparents split up about 2 years ago after more than 50 years of marriage...why? They weren't in love anymore, and it was quite amicable. I'm sure they were very happy for those 50 years, but there came a time when they were just done.
I think you're very naive.
As for the OP, I wear a small silver ring on my left hand at work and people generally don't comment on whether or not I'm married. I've found that in workplaces, people are nicer to me when they assume I'm married, especially other women. I guess I'm not seen as a threat anymore, and a bit more stable as opposed to a swingin single woman in her 20s.
I am going to be hitting the big 3-0 later this year though, and I have had plenty of comments from my friends and family asking about whether or not I'm going to be settling down. The thing is, that I'd LOVE to find someone, get married and all that jazz, but I just don't see it happening anytime soon.
I have experienced far more in life than I would admit here and when it comes to marriage why marry someone who failed before in the other hasn't? the odds are that marriage will fail so why take the chance?
I have experienced far more in life than I would admit here and when it comes to marriage why marry someone who failed before in the other hasn't? the odds are that marriage will fail so why take the chance?
You shouldn't if you are uncomfortable with it. I just don't understand why all the fuss. Just don't date the guys you don't like. Is the problem that other women still date them? Is that it?
I'm not bitter at all, just disgusted with people telling me to lower my standards based on something I strongly feel about.I can only date a divorced man who had an annulment and not willing to date someone who hasn't.
Well, your screen name says it all. I predict you will be alone and with your attitude, you deserve to be.
You shouldn't if you are uncomfortable with it. I just don't understand why all the fuss. Just don't date the guys you don't like. Is the problem that other women still date them? Is that it?
Because too many judge me on this. I don't care how others live but I am strict and people don't get it and keep telling me I am wrong.
Well you will be alone except with more kids out of wedlock. I prefer being alone than that.
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