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No, I don't do this. I only fantasize about my one guy, however I sometimes fantasize we are in a completely different location, often in public - but always with my guy.... I guess I am a secret exhibitionist. I will leave it at that.
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I'm focusing on what I'm doing and what my body is feeling (monitoring where I'm at) and thinking of next step (positions, change in what we're going) and how my partner is reacting (and modifying / intensifying based on that feedback). Thinking of someone else? Never occurred to me.
How often does this happen to you? I'm not talking about the good looking stranger that flashed a quick grin and prolonged eye contract as he/she passed you in the grocery aisle or the porn actress you can't get enough of. More along the lines of someone you are close to. The brother or sister of your SO. His or her best friend. The man or woman at work that you've been crushing on for the longest time. Are these dangerous signs or just harmless fun? Is it worth doing to liven up a dull/routine sex life? Do you think your partner ever gets suspicious when you attack him/her with passion and vigor that has been lacking for some time?
Happy Valentines Day! I can only achieve orgasm by thinking of someone other than you!
I've never been able to perfect this little mind trick. Dialing your own number is one thing, but It's a little hard to pretend the other person in the room with you is actually somebody else.
I've never been able to perfect this little mind trick. Dialing your own number is one thing, but It's a little hard to pretend the other person in the room with you is actually somebody else.
Rodney Dangerfield related: Me and my wife were going at it, but it just wasn't happening. So I said to her, "What? You can't think of anyone else either?"
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