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Not if you do it in a confident way and like I said earlier, respect her wishes when she doesn't want to go any further.
Suave guys confidently and subtly work their way around the bases starting with the first or second date, and they don't complain or let their frustration show if they get stuck on one for a little while.
Creepy guys start making out with a chick in the car after dinner and abruptly whip out their junk, then protest and act indignant when the girl isn't into it.
See the difference?
Yeah, I see the difference. I'd hate to fall into the latter camp....avoiding it at all costs.
I hate to ask....mind giving me an example/scenario? I know what you're getting at, but I havent the foggiest of how to apply it. I used to think 100% chivary/gentleman/doormat stuff was okay until I got a reality check from a girl I know.
Yeah, I see the difference. I'd hate to fall into the latter camp....avoiding it at all costs.
I hate to ask....mind giving me an example/scenario? I know what you're getting at, but I havent the foggiest of how to apply it. I used to think 100% chivary/gentleman/doormat stuff was okay until I got a reality check from a girl I know.
Chivalry/gentleman and doormat are not the same thing. Can you clarify?
Chivalry/gentleman and doormat are not the same thing. Can you clarify?
I always try to be a gentleman and all, but for years It's all I really knew what to do. I also have parents that implored me to put women on an amazingly high pedestal.
Just about all my friends give me "Dude, you can't be nice ALL the time" on a regular basis. I agree, I kind of not want to be Mr. Nice Guy 24/7. :P
just be urself, dont fake being a nice guy.. if a girl is out of line let her know... dont try and please people.. Thats what not being a doormat means.
just be urself, dont fake being a nice guy.. if a girl is out of line let her know... dont try and please people.. Thats what not being a doormat means.
Seems to be working so far. Met someone for a first date on Sunday, and she came over again yesterday. Having more fun on the weekend with her!
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