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I'm currently in 12th grade (I'll be graduating this year) and well none of the girls I'm interest in like me in return; only those two I don't like physically.
Why? I know I'm good looking, participate in school activities, I'm friendly with everyone and I'm not chubby (I'm 6'1 and 180 Ibs). So why do only chubby girls have a crush on me and only those 2 particular I'm going to mention. Just because I was friendly with those girls, they already have the wrong idea that I want to date them sometime.Or I'm I just limited to chubby and/or unattractive girls?
I'm usually friendly to everyone at school but these particular chubby girls (one is heavier but ok looking and the other is just not attractive) seem to want to hang out with me more.
I always give them excuses such ''Sorry but I got family reunion'' or ''Gotta really study for my finals but maybe next time''. I accidentally overheard Lynn (the heavier but not so bad looking girl) talking to her friend about how she has a crush on me since 7th grade and how she wants to know me better but I'm always busy.
The other girl, Katia (who is fairly ugly, has braces and glasses) also likes me. I can tell because she sometimes seems to stay after school in history class; supposely to help out the teacher grading exams and homeworks but why always when I'm there or how she smiles at me. I only talked to her as a person but then once she said ''Brian, if you're not doing anything I was wondering if we could hang out''. I made an excuse but she ''Ok, let me know''.
I recently went to a party with my friends but nothing. The only girl who started a conversation with me was another chubby one. I guess that's better than nothing but ugh, it was such an awkward moment and doesn't seem like a compliment to me.
I did talked to her off course but only because I didn't want to be rude.
I have asked my crush out some time ago (a smart, nice and cute girl; definitely not chubby) but she declined and was straight forward saying she didn't really see me that way but as a friend. This sucks.
Deal with it. You're lucky the chubby girls are even interested in you.
Ughhh... Is that all I'm worthy of?
I'm still waiting to date a girl that has all the good qualities as my crush had and isn't chubby but seems that's hard. It's like they are either with a bf, like another guy, are never available and it's always a rejection. Even the nice girls who aren't fat don't want me.
If you are still dating when you are middle-aged the term becomes "BBW" and many of these women will be looking for men who are "HWP". Just a heads up!
I have asked my crush out some time ago (a smart, nice and cute girl; definitely not chubby) but she declined and was straight forward saying she didn't really see me that way but as a friend. This sucks.
Nobody can force you to be attracted to a chubby girl, but keep in mind how you feel when you are rejected. Then consider that is probably how these chubby girls feel when you reject them.
Maybe you smell like candy or food all the time - just saying
No, I don't eat like a pig and never have.
I don't have facebook nor go to online dating sites. I would rather meet girls in person, not online. I guess it must be bad luck at this moment. If not, I don't know what is it.
Maybe you smell like candy or food all the time - just saying
I tried putting a Ding Dong down my pants but no takers.
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