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Originally Posted by Sharky2Sharks
A couple weeks ago my boyfriend dumped me for another woman. I took the break-up hard I'm still a little bitter but I'm managing. I still care for this man.
I talked to my aunt who knows him and she says he's going through disrepair because he just paid all of his new girlfriend bills that has been backed up for a few months, and he bought his girlfriends kids New clothes. After all that his new girlfriend told him that she needs a break and he should leave her alone for a while.
I want to call him and let him know that I'm here for him . But my girlfriends insist that I stay away before my obsession with him starts again. ( I'm not obsessed they go way overboard sometime)
I need opinions city data.
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I am not understanding you correctly or perhaps I am reading this wrong..?
You stated that your B/F broke up with you a couple of weeks ago..He basically dumped you for this other woman?
1. I am not callous, quite the opposite, I can see where this has been hard for you since you were not “done” with the relationship, you most likely still harbor all the same feelings you have for him since to you?
You did not want to end the relationship…
2. It I obvious per your post that your new ex b/f did want to end his relationship with you and pursue this with her…
So NOW there is this new development with him, he got duped by the new girl after he paid her bills and bought her child new clothes…
This my dear Is called karma…There is nothing you can do or should do..
This is in fact called a natural consequence of someone’s hasty actions..
I understand being A “good” person and wanting to extend yourself in the event he would need “you”….
However where Is your self respect and self love?
This is someone you may have trusted and loved…and expected the same in kind,
I do not think he was thinking of your feelings or discord when he made the decision to break up with you…
I would honestly pray for him and move forward and hopefully lessoned learned on his behalf…
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