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Old 05-09-2013, 06:43 PM
 
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Kind of a odd question.

I'm 20 years old, and I live in a very small community in north east wisconsin. No stop lights, no mall, nothing.

I'm having a hard time finding a girl who hasn't slept around with everyone and their brother around here and who actually wants a relationship. Problem is, I'm not very popular, don't get invited to parties, or to hang out.

I feel like a creep on Facebook trying to get to know people. How the helllll does a guy find a decent girl now a days.
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Old 05-09-2013, 06:45 PM
 
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Kind of a odd question.

I'm 20 years old, and I live in a very small community in north east wisconsin. No stop lights, no mall, nothing.

I'm having a hard time finding a girl who hasn't slept around with everyone and their brother around here and who actually wants a relationship. Problem is, I'm not very popular, don't get invited to parties, or to hang out.

I feel like a creep on Facebook trying to get to know people. How the helllll does a guy find a decent girl now a days.
Move somewhere with more options
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Old 05-09-2013, 06:46 PM
 
Location: Lansing, MI
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Move somewhere with more options
This.

You're young, you have nothing holding you back and your whole future ahead. Get out, stretch your legs and see the world a little!
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Old 05-09-2013, 06:48 PM
 
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Sounds like your issue is similar to mine.

Move, it'll improve your life and your options.
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Old 05-09-2013, 07:18 PM
 
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Sounds like your issue is similar to mine.

Move, it'll improve your life and your options.
I'd love to move, but money is the problem here. Been unemployed awhile.

Currently waiting for a call back from a GM dealership about 45 minutes away so hopefully then!
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Old 05-09-2013, 07:41 PM
 
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Yea, a 20 year old has the capital to just pack up and move because he can't find a girlfriend.

How about neighboring towns? I live in a small town as well but have access to a couple booming college towns near by.
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Old 05-09-2013, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Yea, a 20 year old has the capital to just pack up and move because he can't find a girlfriend.

How about neighboring towns? I live in a small town as well but have access to a couple booming college towns near by.
Eh. I moved across the country on less than $800 and less than a months notice with zero support system set up in my new city. It can be done.


Regardless, I find it REALLY hard to believe every single woman in the OPs town has slept around and doesn't want a relationship.
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Old 05-09-2013, 07:46 PM
 
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Kind of a odd question.

I'm 20 years old, and I live in a very small community in north east wisconsin. No stop lights, no mall, nothing.

I'm having a hard time finding a girl who hasn't slept around with everyone and their brother around here and who actually wants a relationship. Problem is, I'm not very popular, don't get invited to parties, or to hang out.

I feel like a creep on Facebook trying to get to know people. How the helllll does a guy find a decent girl now a days.
18-23 is easy...

30-60 is HARD!!!

Everyone is married or taken.
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Old 05-09-2013, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Pa
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18-23 is easy...

30-60 is HARD!!!

Everyone is married or taken.
Lol only in your town.
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Old 05-09-2013, 08:00 PM
 
Location: Sunshine Coast, QLD
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Kind of a odd question.

I'm 20 years old, and I live in a very small community in north east wisconsin. No stop lights, no mall, nothing.

I'm having a hard time finding a girl who hasn't slept around with everyone and their brother around here and who actually wants a relationship. Problem is, I'm not very popular, don't get invited to parties, or to hang out.

I feel like a creep on Facebook trying to get to know people. How the helllll does a guy find a decent girl now a days.

Oh Gods, Wisconsin!! You have my sympathies OP, you really do. I lived in WI until 2008, when I mercifully moved away. IDK the hows, or whys, but for a single man, WI has got to be the absolute worst place on the planet to be, unless you make over $100k, and even then maybe. The women there, well, IDK what to say. Being myself was just fine in OK and especially Oz, but for some reason, in WI-never good enough.
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