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Dial 1-800- call a marriage counsler and pay for your therapy OR............then attach a bill for your hourly services.
There was one married guy, at work, who bothered the **** out of me. ( I was cold and gave a lot of "yeah" answers )He complained about his wife, so I said, " Why don't you take her to counseling and bring her on a Disney Cruise?" He said, " I don't want to take THAT ***** on a cruise..." honestly. I know, as I get older, I need to be a loud mouthed ***** to these "men" who cheat on their wives.
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I think I am starting to "see the light". I don't want to give anyone the benefit of the doubt. IF someone is THAT unhappy in their marriage, divorce, THEN do what ever!!!
I notice, too, the married men have the same lines. Makes me sick to my stomach. One I have noticed, maybe it's regional, "...I have a stalker..." Go the **** away.
I totally agree..if you are unhappy,get out first and THEN go find yourself a single person that makes you happy..I think they want a parachute before they jump and someone to land on when they jump....as for the stalker,I always joked that I would love to have my very own stalker that I could call mine...uhhh..that long running joke backfired on me BAD and now my buddies won't let me live it down
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Text them back this:
Dial 1-800- call a marriage counsler and pay for your therapy OR............then attach a bill for your hourly services.
THAT is a fantastic idea!!! I have a big sign posted in my office that plainly states in bold letters.."shop rate=$90 per hour mechanical $45 per hour welding NO EXCEPTIONS"...He tried to contact me while I was in a church business meeting last night (knowing it was Sunday and where I probably was I might add) and I have ignored him..next call or txt he makes I will just txt back "I'm going to have to start charging you shop rate for the time you are taking away from my working time...the electric company,water dept and other utilities do not take pity on me at the end of the month because I am stupid,so I will have to follow suit and not have pity on you during the billing phase just because you are stupid either..thank you for your business and your prompt payment" I'm tired of it and if he was a friend he wouldn't be trying to use me like this anyway..thanks for the idea
I totally agree..if you are unhappy,get out first and THEN go find yourself a single person that makes you happy..I think they want a parachute before they jump and someone to land on when they jump....as for the stalker,I always joked that I would love to have my very own stalker that I could call mine...uhhh..that long running joke backfired on me BAD and now my buddies won't let me live it down
No stalkers! Stalkers, obviously, are fixated on someone for some reason---it's internal that obsession.
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No stalkers! Stalkers, obviously, are fixated on someone for some reason---it's internal that obsession.
I thought it would be kind of cool "hey man,look at these nice boots that my stalker left for me this morning...aren't you jealous?...it doesn't really work like that I found.
I thought it would be kind of cool "hey man,look at these nice boots that my stalker left for me this morning...aren't you jealous?...it doesn't really work like that I found.
No, because God help you if your stalker feels slighted by you. It could be something as small as rubbing your nose wrong.
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No, because God help you if your stalker feels slighted by you. It could be something as small as rubbing your nose wrong.
She called 200x a day and I was married...she KNEW I was married..I finally gave my wife my cell phone and I took hers...she got the hint finally,but it was really a bad deal for me and its one of the few things that I don't joke about anymore
She called 200x a day and I was married...she KNEW I was married..I finally gave my wife my cell phone and I took hers...she got the hint finally,but it was really a bad deal for me and its one of the few things that I don't joke about anymore
I don't know if there are any statistics on this, but from the stories I hear, it's still rare that a married man will leave his wife for his mistress, especially if there are kids and an expensive divorce. If anything, I think women may be more likely to leave a husband to trade up to someone else.
Agree...they may be unhappy but they are less likely to do something about it (except cheat). It's a temporary escape for them.
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They usually don't leave their wife because they like her, even though they may say otherwise.
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Lol, true usually cheating goes with lying, badmouthing the woman you're married to when you are the "bad" one.
Of all the men I know that have cheated, the wife was "crazy, unsympathetic, lazy, a bad mother, spends all his money, doesn't respect him"....and on and on. Yet the response to "why put up with that?" is always "for the kids". They like to play the martyr and gain the sympathy of outside parties. I've known some of the wives in these situations and the way they describe their wife is rarely true or that awful. They have to try and make their story convincing though so she becomes this monster, otherwise how would he get that other woman to feel sorry for him and win her affections?
Now I'm not saying ALL men are like this, just the ones I know that have cheated. The women that I know that have cheated do not tend to fall into this type of behavior pattern.
YUP, that's it, boy you got our number, we have absolutely nothing better to do in our lives than pressure some man until he gives in and marries us.........we are pathetic little women who are insecure, cannot take care of ourselves, HAVE to have a man, ANY MAN will do for that matter just because we HAVE to settle and cannot possibly find a good, honest, decent man who will be OUR PARTNER, not our master.................
boy that did not take you long to figure that one out, impressive, really, I mean it, about as impressive as, oh I don't know.............slime on a pond maybe..........
It happens this way. Marriages happen lots of different ways I'd guess. Some men want marriage too.
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One I have noticed, maybe it's regional, "...I have a stalker..." Go the **** away.
I'm tired of it and if he was a friend he wouldn't be trying to use me like this anyway..thanks for the idea 
No stalkers! Stalkers, obviously, are fixated on someone for some reason---it's internal that obsession.
