This is the scenario: two guys who have shown interest but I don't know who is truly interested or only attracted? One guy, let call him James, is about my same age and I have known him for about 5 yrs or so. We work together, but this guy is painfully shy to the point that i feel frustrated for his lack of initiative. He found out that soon i will be moving on to a new job a has started to behave a little different. Now he says hi to me without ignoring me (which he used to do in the past), tries to bump into me or looks for excuses to be closer to me or talk to me. He even gave me a "fortune cookie" , which I felt it was strange since he never has given me anything at all. Looks at me with tenderness in his eyes, smiles and all that. I truly had this huge crush on him in the past but since the guy never made a move , i decided to only see him as a friend. He gets jealous when guy B (let's name him Richard) , who is young , good looking and more sociable starts talking to me. I have become more friendly with Richard, and I feel the attraction is mutual (he stares at me, blushes, talks about himself to impress me, ask me to be his facebook friend..etc). Thing is, Richard is way younger than me but I think he is a great and smart guy. I feel confused because Richard avoids eye contact with me sometimes and gets nervous when he gets close, but I have noticed , he is becoming friendlier , and gets in close proximity to me when he gets a chance, and tries to prove himself in front of me. James and Richard and myself work together in the same place!! GUYS and GIRLS, have you encountered this same situation that the guys /girls you like are so shy and don't make a move or ask you out??
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