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Old 08-13-2015, 04:50 PM
 
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I personally dont think im doing anything wrong, i see it as nothing.

So when im out with my girlfriend she thinks its disrespectful that im "looking at other girls" accusing me of checking them out. Im not and i think shes crazy

She says one glance is okay but anything more is checking out. She gets mad wether theyre 5 or 80.

Heres the thing, i may glance once just because. Not to see if their attractive, not to see what their wearing, not look them up and down, like No way im checking them out. Just like to see whos around me. But if i look in the same direction again where the girls at evem though im not looking directly at them, my gf gets mad and says its disrespectful and i need to respect her and blah blah blah

I think im not doing anything wrong and this goes for every girl even if their a little kid..
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Old 08-13-2015, 04:54 PM
 
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I personally dont think im doing anything wrong, i see it as nothing.

So when im out with my girlfriend she thinks its disrespectful that im "looking at other girls" accusing me of checking them out. Im not and i think shes crazy

She says one glance is okay but anything more is checking out. She gets mad wether theyre 5 or 80.

Heres the thing, i may glance once just because. Not to see if their attractive, not to see what their wearing, not look them up and down, like No way im checking them out. Just like to see whos around me. But if i look in the same direction again where the girls at evem though im not looking directly at them, my gf gets mad and says its disrespectful and i need to respect her and blah blah blah

I think im not doing anything wrong and this goes for every girl even if their a little kid..
Someone has jealous issues.
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Old 08-13-2015, 04:58 PM
 
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Someone has jealous issues.
Called it out plenty of times and she denied it and said "why would i be jealous of them" and claims its just disrespectful
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Old 08-13-2015, 05:07 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Wear sunglasses. Problem solved.
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Old 08-13-2015, 05:11 PM
 
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in my opinion it is disrespectful. when i am out with my lady, she is the ONLY one i look at. at that point in time she is the only girl in the world i see, everyone else is just a blank canvas. i just have no need for anyone else.
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Old 08-13-2015, 05:18 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Wear sunglasses. Problem solved.
Or wear a blindfold and get a blind guide dog
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Old 08-13-2015, 05:19 PM
 
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in my opinion it is disrespectful. when i am out with my lady, she is the ONLY one i look at. at that point in time she is the only girl in the world i see, everyone else is just a blank canvas. i just have no need for anyone else.
Yeah but your not walking looking at the ground right? Your looking at your surroundings, thats what im doing. Never purposely looking at another woman
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Old 08-13-2015, 05:20 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Some women are bothered by it, and some aren't. It bothered me when I was younger, but now it doesn't phase me in the slightest. I'll tease the Mr. by handing him a napkin to wipe up his drool, or say something like "I guess I better put out tonight." It's all in good fun, just like when he catches me glancing at a male specimen.
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Old 08-13-2015, 05:22 PM
 
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"GF, you either grow the hell up now, or I take you home now. Which is it?"
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Old 08-13-2015, 05:23 PM
 
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Called it out plenty of times and she denied it and said "why would i be jealous of them" and claims its just disrespectful
Well she is
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