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Many women (an many men) fantasise about being 'taken'. It doesn't meant they want that IRL.
It's just a way to show, in the fantasy, that their fantasy partner is highly sexual and highly attracted to them. Sometimes it's also a way to bypass guilt, or messages that they should not be sexual themselves.
IRL, egalitarianism, combined with obvious desire, is often a more intense turn-on .
This was stated in the crazy girls thread and I admit it shocked me. I have no sexual experience with women, only men, but I don't recall ever having to be told what to do. Sure , during some acts, encouragement and discussion over what feels best is natural, but that goes both ways, with both partners.
Do women really need to be told what to do, in your experience?
Please keep it PG 13.
For the most part, YES, yes, and YES.
I think when you see relationships that otherwise seem toxic, but the couple still stays together, it is probably because they are extremely sexually compatible.
Although most* sex is good sex, some people are just flat out better. And when I date that person, which is quite rare, it is not like they are just a little tiny bit better than most... it's like, "holy good god this woman is amazing!"
I'm sure woman feel the same way also. Many posts have come from women that state, 'so-and-so was AMAZING compared to others'.
The women that are comfortable and CONFIDENT (not arrogant or cocky) and don't ALWAYS need to be directed in bed are usually the best ones. Throw your reservations to the wind beautiful butterfly, there is no place for them in the bedroom.
This was stated in the crazy girls thread and I admit it shocked me. I have no sexual experience with women, only men, but I don't recall ever having to be told what to do. Sure , during some acts, encouragement and discussion over what feels best is natural, but that goes both ways, with both partners.
Do women really need to be told what to do, in your experience?
Please keep it PG 13.
Get rid of the w and the o, and I'd be inclined to agree. (I have to be told what to do)
This was stated in the crazy girls thread and I admit it shocked me. I have no sexual experience with women, only men, but I don't recall ever having to be told what to do. Sure , during some acts, encouragement and discussion over what feels best is natural, but that goes both ways, with both partners.
Do women really need to be told what to do, in your experience?
Please keep it PG 13.
They don't need to...but ime they want to be told what to do.
I can't tell you how many times a girl has asked me something like "what do you want?" only for me to be thinking "I want you to have some initiative..."
Exactly. And he'd better say it like he means it or I'm not doing it .
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