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Old 08-01-2013, 10:19 PM
 
Location: Howard County, MD
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... the one girl I could have a deep conversation with and not want to blow my brains out, literally fell for some douche talking about buying drugs, telling her he hates her, and cutting down her religion in the lamest most cliche way.


**** my life ...
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Old 08-01-2013, 10:23 PM
 
Location: Grand Rapids, MI
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There's always a next train.
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Old 08-01-2013, 10:28 PM
 
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But he's hot though.

It makes all the difference in the world.

But, this situation happens all the time, and she's probably not 100% healthy emotionally or mentally.
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Old 08-01-2013, 10:53 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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... the one girl I could have a deep conversation with and not want to blow my brains out, literally fell for some douche talking about buying drugs, telling her he hates her, and cutting down her religion in the lamest most cliche way.


**** my life ...
You'll live. She's just one girl.

[you'll find another]
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Old 08-02-2013, 12:57 AM
 
Location: USA
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she's probably not 100% healthy emotionally or mentally.
This is so true. The OP should consider himself very lucky to escape.
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Old 08-02-2013, 05:08 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Looks like you were not her type....
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Old 08-02-2013, 05:49 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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... the one girl I could have a deep conversation with and not want to blow my brains out, literally fell for some douche talking about buying drugs, telling her he hates her, and cutting down her religion in the lamest most cliche way.


**** my life ...
No point in crying over what clearly wasn't a good match. She has baggage. If she didn't, you two would be together. Find someone with better self-esteem and common sense.
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Old 08-02-2013, 08:58 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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The frustration at first is understandable, when you know you have far better qualities then the douche and she chooses him. But here's the thing: You should find someone that matches yourself better and she's not it, or she would not have gone off with someone using a cheap pickup tactic of reverse psychology and a cheaper spray tan. You're better off channelling that energy into someone better.
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Old 08-02-2013, 09:05 AM
 
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how do you know so many intimate details about their relationship and the way he treats her? for whatever reason, you didn't maintain her interest. maybe she wasn't as great as she seemed or maybe this other guy was actually a better "catch"- who knows. i hate how people play the pity party game and blame everyone but themselves in these situations. my boyfriend (and other men i know) looks like a "bad" boy on the outside...he's tough, has tattoos, and has been into drugs. but he is a very intelligent, strong, and interesting person. he treats me like a princess and he is a very good person overall. plenty of the boring guys with boring office jobs who don't do drugs are completely psychotic woman-hating douchebags.
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Old 08-02-2013, 09:34 AM
 
Location: Canada
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But he's hot though.

It makes all the difference in the world.

But, this situation happens all the time, and she's probably not 100% healthy emotionally or mentally.
Bingo.
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