His friend joked about him and me dating... (girls, love, interested)
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I know this may sound silly but i'm bad at reading signs and understanding guys' behaviour so i could really use your opinions !
So, I was in town with a guy friend, having an ice cream. As we were almost done one of his best friends arrived. He is also a really nice guy and I thought he was going to join us but I left them 1 min to go fetching something, and when i came back the friend was leaving already and i think went joining some other people.
Then my friend said "he said he is not staying because it looks like i'm on a date...". I was surprised, he said it while smiling but in a bit of a shy way (not a mocking one), then i was a bit embarrassed ... awkward atmosphere between us. We soon finished and had to leave, but this joke kind of intrigued me. I've sometimes felt in the past like this friend was interested in me but i'm not sure... but do you think this "joke" his guy friend made could indicate something, do guys talk to each other about girls they "like", and tease each other like this ? Or is it just a joke do you think ...?
i don't know how old you are, but i think my thoughts would be the same even if you were in high school: You are over thinking it. If a guy is interested in you, he will try to find a way of spending time with you. if he cant figure out how, cant find the opportunity to "bump into you", or doesn't have the ballz to move on his desires for you, he is probably someone you don't want to pay a whole lot of attention to, cuz it's going no where anywayz.
If he spends time with you, means he likes you, but sometimes boys just do that for some other purpose. Like they just want to be friends, or it can be any other reason. So before you make a move, you should be sure.
So, I was in town with a guy friend, having an ice cream. As we were almost done one of his best friends arrived. He is also a really nice guy and I thought he was going to join us but I left them 1 min to go fetching something, and when i came back the friend was leaving already and i think went joining some other people.
Then my friend said "he said he is not staying because it looks like i'm on a date...". I was surprised, he said it while smiling but in a bit of a shy way (not a mocking one), then i was a bit embarrassed ... awkward atmosphere between us. We soon finished and had to leave, but this joke kind of intrigued me. I've sometimes felt in the past like this friend was interested in me but i'm not sure...
Clearly your friend did nothing to change his friend's impression. He could have easily told him to stay, that you two were just friends and hanging out. Your friend wanted alone time with you. In fact, he might have told his friend it was a date and he'd catch up with him later.
I know this may sound silly but i'm bad at reading signs and understanding guys' behaviour so i could really use your opinions !
So, I was in town with a guy friend, having an ice cream. As we were almost done one of his best friends arrived. He is also a really nice guy and I thought he was going to join us but I left them 1 min to go fetching something, and when i came back the friend was leaving already and i think went joining some other people.
Then my friend said "he said he is not staying because it looks like i'm on a date...". I was surprised, he said it while smiling but in a bit of a shy way (not a mocking one), then i was a bit embarrassed ... awkward atmosphere between us. We soon finished and had to leave, but this joke kind of intrigued me. I've sometimes felt in the past like this friend was interested in me but i'm not sure... but do you think this "joke" his guy friend made could indicate something, do guys talk to each other about girls they "like", and tease each other like this ? Or is it just a joke do you think ...?
Thanks !
I think if the guy you were with wasn't interested in you "that way" then I don't think he would have told you about the "date" comment his friend made. I also think the way you described how he looked when he told you also indicates that he's interested.
I wouldn't take it as a joke. I think the friend knows something that you don't
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