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And then once we chat on the phone she will make it a dating conversation and pretend that I never said I want to meet at my place for the adult fun. So then I get annoyed because I let her trick me into making it a dating conversation and then going outside on a date. They don't ever mention anything about what I stated in my ad in regards to adult fun.
And this goes all the way back to 2000 when I was on telephone dating sites. So I wonder why a woman who can clearly see what I want will act like I never said it all so she can turn it into a dating siutuation.
When they see I want to do a fetish activity or something foreplay related they will say....."You are so silly" Why not just respond to a guy who is looking for a relationship??????????
Selective hearing and reading. Projection. Things like that.
I presume she had an ad that stated she wanted a relationship too? I guess the guilty party would be the one who wrote first. Would that be you or her, west?
Selective hearing and reading. Projection. Things like that.
I presume she had an ad that stated she wanted a relationship too? I guess the guilty party would be the one who wrote first. Would that be you or her, west?
She responded to me first and then I asked.......did you read my profile? If not read it and tell me what you think?
Then she says...."I don't know about doing XYZ but I can deal with the other things but I just figured you were being silly.
You need to be more specific than "Intimate Encounter". Women tend to want intimacy, when what you want is a Sexual Encounter.
Aren't there websites that are not about online dating but about connecting with others who have similar interests to yours? Fetishes and kinky stuff???
You should arrange a date and then show up at her place with a 3 gallon bucket of lube and handcuffs and say, "Oh, I thought you were joking about the date thing."
And then once we chat on the phone she will make it a dating conversation and pretend that I never said I want to meet at my place for the adult fun. So then I get annoyed because I let her trick me into making it a dating conversation and then going outside on a date. They don't ever mention anything about what I stated in my ad in regards to adult fun.
And this goes all the way back to 2000 when I was on telephone dating sites. So I wonder why a woman who can clearly see what I want will act like I never said it all so she can turn it into a dating siutuation.
When they see I want to do a fetish activity or something foreplay related they will say....."You are so silly" Why not just respond to a guy who is looking for a relationship??????????
Question asked, question answered. They think you're not serious about the fetish you talk about in your profile/post.
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Originally Posted by librarySue
You need to be more specific than "Intimate Encounter". Women tend to want intimacy, when what you want is a Sexual Encounter.
Aren't there websites that are not about online dating but about connecting with others who have similar interests to yours? Fetishes and kinky stuff???
^^^^^ This. Seriously, OP, you're much more likely to get both the response and the playmate(s) you're looking for if you use a site like librarySue mentions. You need to fish in the right barrel.
You should arrange a date and then show up at her place with a 3 gallon bucket of lube and handcuffs and say, "Oh, I thought you were joking about the date thing."
Question asked, question answered. They think you're not serious about the fetish you talk about in your profile/post.
^^^^^ This. Seriously, OP, you're much more likely to get both the response and the playmate(s) you're looking for if you use a site like librarySue mentions. You need to fish in the right barrel.
Let me make myself clear
I never ever wanted a women who is looking for a intimate situation. I prefer a woman who is looking for a relationship and then sees my ad and says......"that's different and I'm curious enough to consider it"
No way in hell would I ever let any woman in my place who signs up for a intimate encounter website....EWWW
And then once we chat on the phone she will make it a dating conversation and pretend that I never said I want to meet at my place for the adult fun. So then I get annoyed because I let her trick me into making it a dating conversation and then going outside on a date. They don't ever mention anything about what I stated in my ad in regards to adult fun.
And this goes all the way back to 2000 when I was on telephone dating sites. So I wonder why a woman who can clearly see what I want will act like I never said it all so she can turn it into a dating siutuation.
When they see I want to do a fetish activity or something foreplay related they will say....."You are so silly" Why not just respond to a guy who is looking for a relationship??????????
Because for some women, a man's looks are very important, more important than how he treats her.
They have a very distorted image about relationships, and think they can change someone into loving them when their perception of love and respect are delusional and unrealistic.
They want to turn a good looking bad boy into a Prince Charming they can marry.
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