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Exactly. Ouchie!!
Seriously if you're short, and a bit small, then you can make up for it in other ways. However if you're short, small and have a insecure attitude then women will run away.
Like anything else size is a preference just like hair color, eye color, body type. Some women like a bigger member. Some not so much, or find large to be painful.
I'm larger than average and have made a girl O from penetration, but usually after lots of other stuff... get a girl to the point where just dragging the back of your fingers across her hip bones makes her shudder and I don't think she'll be questioning its size one way or the other.
Have you ever pulled your pants down and had a girl just go, "uh... no?" Probably not; if it's small, it'll still go in without any work even if they prefer the aesthetic look of a big one. I've had a few girls who were all ready for it and then changed their mind once they saw it; especially petite gals... and, I remember when I was a teenager and it was smaller, sex was consistently better for me when I could get it all the way in with most girls. Now, there's more reaching... and taking it slow... and five minutes of "ow, ow, ow" or "slow down, that hurts" before I'm like a third in.
I'm larger than average and have made a girl O from penetration, but usually after lots of other stuff... get a girl to the point where just dragging the back of your fingers across her hip bones makes her shudder and I don't think she'll be questioning its size one way or the other.
Have you ever pulled your pants down and had a girl just go, "uh... no?" Probably not; if it's small, it'll still go in without any work even if they prefer the aesthetic look of a big one. I've had a few girls who were all ready for it and then changed their mind once they saw it; especially petite gals... and, I remember when I was a teenager and it was smaller, sex was consistently better for me when I could get it all the way in with most girls. Now, there's more reaching... and taking it slow... and five minutes of "ow, ow, ow" or "slow down, that hurts" before I'm like a third in.
I'm not a porn watcher, normally, but someone showed me something once and the guy was huge. And my first thought was not, 'That's hawt'. It was, 'Oh that poor man. He will never in his life get a real bj or anything but careful, tentative intercourse'.
I'm not a porn watcher, normally, but someone showed me something once and the guy was huge. And my first thought was not, 'That's hawt'. It was, 'Oh that poor man. He will never in his life get a real bj or anything but careful, tentative intercourse'.
For realz.
Oh I have seen them. I would think that poor woman. Ouchie!
Well I hear big boober women complain about them. So I guess big tallywackers have problems too.
I prefer a medium-small size. Big ones freaken hurt.
I'm not a porn watcher, normally, but someone showed me something once and the guy was huge. And my first thought was not, 'That's hawt'. It was, 'Oh that poor man. He will never in his life get a real bj or anything but careful, tentative intercourse'.
For realz.
Yeah, again, when I think back on it, I come to the realization that the sex I had in my teens was generally, consistently better, because I could still get all in without tons of drama. It continued to get larger through my early 20's; I've had a few long-term girlfriends who got used to it, but now, back in the singles life/dating world... it usually takes awhile before they're ready for it. Vaginas can stretch out, but it takes time... and, I remember when one of my exes was gone for almost a month visiting her family, when she came back, it was back to square one
OP: Foreplay is a much bigger thing for women than men; we're generally ready to go as soon as we're up... but, with women, it's a different matter. Again, in my experience, if they are going to O from penetration then they're probably primed from foreplay; I learned that it's much easier to get in after a lot of foreplay (often like, 30-60 minutes worth). Don't be afraid of using a toy on her, either. Do it well enough and she won't care one way or the other once you're in, I promise.
So, there you have it: I have what most men are supposed to want, but I can complain about it just as much as the OP. Ultimately, it really is a matter of confidence, self-worth, knowing how to treat a woman to get her there in the first place, and then having a general outline of what most women want when it comes to sex and intimacy.
If a girl ever complains about it being "too small" can't you just give it back to her saying that she's just too loose and tell her it feels like throwing a hot dog down a hallway? Or whatever that saying is? I'd imagine that comment could shut up a girl really quick.
If a girl ever complains about it being "too small" can't you just give it back to her saying that she's just too loose and tell her it feels like throwing a hot dog down a hallway? Or whatever that saying is? I'd imagine that comment could shut up a girl really quick.
probably not constructive
just put her ankles around your shoulders for the next sex. that should do the trick unless you're really, really cursed down there
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