Girlfriend problem. (date, married, woman, lover)

[DarkVoltz]

I've been with my ex for 4 years now.
This waa my first lover. I still do love and care for her more than anything.
Around christmas, she told me that we have been broken up since october, I was really shocked to hear that becuase she tell me that around christmas.
Whats even worse is that she's fallen in love with another man since november.
and she tell me this now.
Im really pissed off, she dont even want to talk to me, her man made her block me on every contact way to her.
She's been playing games with my heart for 2 months.
Nice way to start the new years huh.
Finding out that all this happen made me very mad.
I got in cotact with her one night, and i didnt say anything mean to her, I just ask her why she did it after so long, she busted out in tears saying thats shes sorry and that she still loves me.
She also said that this new guy gives her butterflies in her stomach and treats her right.
I guess the way i loved her was wrong.
Now when i tried to talk to her, she wont even pick up my call.
I try to avaoid her but i cant really do it much at this point.
My heart feels like theres a nail going theought it right now.
We were highschool sweet hearts, After highschool, i went to work and she went to college.
She met the guy there, they were friends, then all this happen.
I was always there for her, even middle of the night I would go buy her food, she lives just 10 min away from me( walking distance) and this new guys live miles away.
I did all i could for her, yet it wasnt enough.
I guess this is my fault for now being tthere at school with her.
Now i found out the guy she dated for one month is getting married in two years with her.
They already have invitations send out, sadly i didnt recieve one.
I tired going to her house, she answered, she started tearing up and bit and said i cant be there or else she'll call the popo on me.
She was my first for everything, my first lover, my first date was with her, kiss, sex, everything was with this woman.
I cant even call her, facetime her, message her on fb or email. she blocked me everywhere and said i should move on..
I know you guys will say to move on, but at the same time i want to and i dont want to.
Is there any chance I might be able to be with her again?
I kinda keep messging her for the past couple days which i know is bad.
But yea, please any advice..

[savoytruffle]

She cheated on you (saw a guy in November and told you about it in December), got engaged to this guy, threatened to call the cops on you and blocked you on everything.

Sorry this happened to you. She's clearly immature and I doubt her new relationship will last. But you need to stop contacting her and find other things to occupy your time, like friends or a new hobby. This relationship is over and you need to accept it. Even if she did come back, why would you want her after the way she has treated you?? That's ridiculous.

[timberline742]

Doesn't sound like a girlfriend problem. Sounds like an ex girlfriend problem.

And lol at invites for a wedding 2 years out.

[calnbs]

LMFAO. This sound so fake but if it's real. Move on. The sooner the better. I remember when one of my relationship ended. Nothing comforts a broken heart better than being in the arms of another woman.

[smisk]

Damn dude, there's no advice to give you other than move on, it's clear she wants nothing to do with you anymore.
One girl isn't the end of the world, there are millions more out there like her...

[pdizo916]

Originally Posted by smisk

Damn dude, there's no advice to give you other than move on, it's clear she wants nothing to do with you anymore.
One girl isn't the end of the world, there are millions more out there like her...

or better than her!

[DarkVoltz]

Thanks for all the feedbacks.
Seems like everyone is saying the same thing and move on.
Guess i should, A new journey awaits ahead for me after all.
Thank you guys and girls.
Take care.

[woxyroxme]

She sounds flakier than a box of cereal, the new guy will find out the hard way, you need to find someone that is a good person on the inside.

[calnbs]

Originally Posted by DarkVoltz

Thanks for all the feedbacks.
Seems like everyone is saying the same thing and move on.
Guess i should, A new journey awaits ahead for me after all.
Thank you guys and girls.
Take care.

Go out and enjoy life. Hang out with friends. Do things you weren't able to do when you were tied down to her. Explore life. Get to know other girls. I know how hard this moment is for you. We've all been there. But we all survived it and have move on with our lives. Some day, you will too!

[Frihed89]

Lots of choices in life. Keep on looking until you get it right.