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Old 09-03-2013, 12:47 PM
 
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What physique? Kid, you don't have a physique. Even in the better photo, anyone can see you have a growing gut. Please get real. As someone pointed out in one of the current threads, women aren't as excited by nude/semi-nude photos as men are. Just play it safe and don't go there. There's such a thing as good taste. Stick with it if you hope to find a serious LTR.
Lol. I like this side of honest blunt Ruth

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Old 09-03-2013, 02:50 PM
 
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It doesn't matter if you use the better picture and are able to get a date. Until you lose that "woe-is-me" attitude, you'll never get a 2nd date with anyone. Seriously dude, no woman wants to be around a guy like that regardless of how you look
Bingo!!!
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Old 09-03-2013, 02:57 PM
 
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I wonder, is a tank top a good alternative to showing your physique?
Just forget it Bro.

Seriously. I would say no pic and win them over with charm and such but I don't think that's gunna work for you either.

When you get up in the morning tell yourself you are a great guy. Do that everyday.

Smile and say something nice to at least one person each day.

Get back with me when you truly believe you are a great guy.
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Old 09-03-2013, 03:46 PM
 
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Should I use a current pic of my current self, basically obese, unhappy, foreveralone POS?



Or the pic of the slimmer and happier person I was a few months ago?
Coming from a straight man I would much rather see that (you) then some woman with a Indian blanket covering her entire body wearing a smile. Some in this thread are shunning you to put some clothes on. Those same gals would reject you once they saw it. Pay it no mind, at least you weed-out all those types beforehand.

I also think it's good you had the balls to show your true self on here as well. Many blowing smoke up your rear-end could never muster that much courage...and therefore shouldn't be "advising" you are anything Sir.

Sometimes the blunt truth is the best option. No supprizes and no second guessing who you are. How many gals stuffed themselves into those clothes for you to only find out they have stretch marks from hell and cottage cheese thighs as well as a jellyroll later when bedroom time comes. That is deception at it's finest. Men aren't like women...they would rather know all this beforehand to either take her up on her offer (don't care and can live with it) or not even waste their time...ultimately better for her in the end. They don't see a body part shrink down to epic proportions as the guy bails on them and leaves them laying naked on the bed.


Be upfront right from the start, at least MEN (your friends with nothing to gain or lose) will respect you more for it.

You have balls, I've give you that Sir.

Don't let the "weak" tell you otherwise.

Take care buddy.
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Old 09-03-2013, 03:53 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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That's not his current pic. He's gained weight and grown out his hair and has a beard.
Sorry, that's the one I can see.
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Old 09-03-2013, 03:56 PM
 
Location: Monterey, CALIFORNIA
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You look like you gave up. Its time for a haircut, shave, and some cardio.
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Old 09-03-2013, 03:59 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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You look like you gave up. Its time for a haircut, shave, and some cardio.
I think we should have a ladies' vote re: whether he should keep the hair or not.
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Old 09-03-2013, 04:03 PM
 
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I think we should have a ladies' vote re: whether he should keep the hair or not.
My hair grows like crazy, like 1 inch per month.
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Old 09-03-2013, 04:12 PM
 
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My hair grows like crazy, like 1 inch per month.

Those with fast growing hair only grow around 1/2 inch a month. Either you're not measuring properly or you're a freak of nature.
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Old 09-03-2013, 04:20 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Those with fast growing hair only grow around 1/2 inch a month. Either you're not measuring properly or you're a freak of nature.
Hair grows faster in the summer. Mine grows 1" / mo. too.
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