I think I was just date raped and maybe drugged....Need advice please (personal, issues)

[oh-eve]

Ugh. There is always an excuse for screwed up people to produce more screwed up people.

[Dewdroplet76]

When was the first day of your last period?

[moongirl00]

Originally Posted by Dewdrop93

When was the first day of your last period?

It was September 11. We had sex on day 12 of my cycle so right at the start of the fertile time.

The following week I had intense cramping. I was doubled over, sweating, and had to lie down and it lasted 4 hours. I read that can be implantation. I've also been feeling nauseous and tired the past 3 days.

My period is due any day now.

[oh-eve]

Why not make a test?

If positive, there is an abortion pill - you take it, have the same sypmtoms as you just described and it is OVER WITH.


... then get the tubes tied ...

[akck]

Originally Posted by Dewdrop93

When was the first day of your last period?

If I read post #256 right, it's been 4 weeks. I figure she'll get accurate home test results next week.

[Dewdroplet76]

Originally Posted by moongirl00

It was September 11. We had sex on day 12 of my cycle so right at the start of the fertile time.

The following week I had intense cramping. I was doubled over, sweating, and had to lie down and it lasted 4 hours. I read that can be implantation. I've also been feeling nauseous and tired the past 3 days.

My period is due any day now.

My implantations were nothing like that at all. I've never heard of implantation being like that. My nausea didn't start until I was about 5 weeks pregnant. Everyone is different but I wouldn't put the cart before the horse. And everyone's fertile time is different.

[Davros]

Originally Posted by moongirl00

I also wouldn't want to give it up for adoption.

I do understand this sentiment, but please consider this carefully.

Also, I hope you haven't ignored the advice from your supporters on this thread that your really need professional counseling.

If you are having financial hardship, there are options.
How do I get Mental Health Services with No Money and No Insurance? - Getting Help Now - Depression

But please get some help, especially if you are possibly having to make a decision regarding a child.

[horsechick71]

Take a pregnancy test and find out. Get the abortion pill and move on with your life.

Also do get counseling...there are services out there for assault victims.

[Davros]

Originally Posted by horsechick71

Take a pregnancy test and find out. Get the abortion pill and move on with your life.

Also do get counseling...there are services out there for assault victims.

If she feels strongly against abortion, as she has indicated, adoption should be at least considered. Sometimes, by adopting a child out of a situation you know is going to be traumatic, you are giving that child the best possible chance at a good life.

This is something she can discuss honestly and at little or no cost with a so-called "evil" organization such as planned parenthood.

[moongirl00]

Thank you for the advice and referrals.

I am definitely going to look into those things. And I'll consider all those options.