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Old 10-01-2013, 02:19 AM
 
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is it time to move on? I'm interested in this guy and sometimes he talks to me for a long time and says hi and looks happy when he sees me. Then sometimes he just ignores me and doesn't want to talk at even when I initiate the conversation?

Does this mean he's not into me?
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Old 10-01-2013, 02:47 AM
 
Location: The Puget Sound
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Sometimes I just don't want to talk. Have you tried asking him about it?
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Old 10-01-2013, 05:06 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Some people are like that. Let him initiate the convo next time.

Or, you could move on now. Do you really want to date a moody person? Could be a red flag.
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Old 10-01-2013, 05:28 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Not an issue and I wouldn't say its a "moody" person. That sort of person is reality. Stop watching TV. Real peoples lives are full of ups and downs. Particularly busy people or people with alot on their plate. Who also happen to be in many cases, successful people.
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Old 10-01-2013, 10:53 AM
 
Location: North Idaho
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He's not that into you. When you are convenient, then at that time you are convenient. When he has anything else to do, or is with someone that he doesn't want to know that he spends time with you, then you aren't convenient.

Really busy men will at least smile, say hi, and let you know they are too busy to talk at the moment. They don't ignore you if they care about you, even marginally.

If he has some sort of mood disorders, that is a very good hint that you should walk away. Mood disorders or not, his manners are very bad, which is another very good hint that you should walk away.
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Old 10-01-2013, 01:05 PM
 
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Mood disorders or not, his manners are very bad, which is another very good hint that you should walk away.
Good point.

He also might only like you as a friend. It's sometimes hard for men to find male friends they can really talk to, so they like to have female friends. The whole line about men only being friends with women to get in their pants is bs. Sometimes .
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Old 10-01-2013, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Windham County, VT
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It's hard to decode what "mixed messages" mean, when someone seems interested off & on, blows hot & cold.
Maybe he has mixed feelings, and is undecided about how he feels towards OP, thus is acting both interested or not-depending on his sentiments in the moment, which seem rather changeable.
If you ask him, I hope he owns up to that behavior, and that he has the self-awareness to recognize if he does have internal conflict/uncertainty-or if there's another explanation.
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Old 06-22-2015, 11:57 AM
 
Location: Sarasota, FL
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Sometimes I just don't want to talk. Have you tried asking him about it?
At the risk of saying the obvious . . . why guess about his behavior? Just ask.
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Old 06-22-2015, 12:02 PM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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It means he's human.
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Old 06-24-2015, 03:03 PM
 
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some times i will go three, four weeks without talking to anybody, not upset, not mad, i just dont want to talk
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