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Old 10-07-2013, 04:22 PM
 
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I'm talking an older woman online (Im 24, she's 40) and I mentioned the recent picture she put up was "stunning." She said thanks, and went on to say she wasn't sure if she should put it up because she has lost weight since then, to which I told her "nonsense, you look fantastic."

Another female friend of mine told me this woman must feel comfortable with me to mention her weight loss to me. Is this true? Or am I just reading into things/hoping?

It is important to note - this woman and I are getting coffee on friday, and I am hoping to ask her out afterwards.
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Old 10-07-2013, 04:32 PM
 
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They always advertise weight loss like Ford friends and family sale. Only hide weight gains like hiding food during the apocalypse
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Old 10-07-2013, 04:44 PM
 
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Nah, if she's 40 and you're 24, then she's trying to get an edge in b/c she's competing with younger girls.
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Old 10-07-2013, 04:45 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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cougarman, did she tell you exactly how much weight she lost and what she weighs now?
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Old 10-07-2013, 04:58 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Seems like conversation and you are over analyzing.
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Old 10-07-2013, 05:02 PM
 
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Seems like conversation and you are over analyzing.
Agree. I don't see it as anything more than this.
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Old 10-07-2013, 05:03 PM
 
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I'm talking an older woman online (Im 24, she's 40) and I mentioned the recent picture she put up was "stunning." She said thanks, and went on to say she wasn't sure if she should put it up because she has lost weight since then, to which I told her "nonsense, you look fantastic."

Another female friend of mine told me this woman must feel comfortable with me to mention her weight loss to me. Is this true? Or am I just reading into things/hoping?

It is important to note - this woman and I are getting coffee on friday, and I am hoping to ask her out afterwards.
Telling someone you've lost weight is easy, it's telling them you've gained that's not...she wouldn't have said anything if that were the case.
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Old 10-07-2013, 05:09 PM
 
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She just wants to bang you, and is down playing.... who cares. Go along with it, but don't be a weenie asking her out for coffee. She wants a couple of strong drinks so she can fell OK about the bang.
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Old 10-07-2013, 05:14 PM
 
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She just wants to bang you, and is down playing.... who cares. Go along with it, but don't be a weenie asking her out for coffee. She wants a couple of strong drinks so she can fell OK about the bang.
Contrary to popular belief, 40 year old women don't want to bang any rando 25 year old. They set standards too. Fitness and looks are high up on their criteria list, especially if she is in shape.
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Old 10-07-2013, 05:17 PM
 
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She just wants to bang you, and is down playing.... who cares. Go along with it, but don't be a weenie asking her out for coffee. She wants a couple of strong drinks so she can fell OK about the bang.
You're assuming she doesn't feel OK about it in the first place....like hell. Girlfriend is loving every second of it!

These women have no morals, and good on em I say. Someone has to break in the virgins and the scared weird ones!
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