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I still don't get it. Just go after women that you want to go after. If they aren't interested, move on. I'm not sure why you are asking other people to tell you who you should be attracted to.
I just want you to understand where I'm coming from, if you don't agree I don't mind. Just for the sake of this argument lets say I'm ugly, I'm short, I smell bad, I have terrible posture, and no woman is going to be attracted to my appearance. Now I only go after the most beautiful women, because that's what I want, I'm just going to get shut down. With my lack of experience and no idea if I'm attractive or not I'm not going to know if I should blame my game or if I'm just "playing out of my league". Just be clear I would not describe myself in that way but I really wanted to get point across and I am a little insecure about how I look, I have nothing to tell me if I'm really actually good looking.
That would be extreme but the thought process is similar. I just want to know what I can expect so I don't waste a lot of time, energy, and maybe even pass up other opportunities being delusional and going for the really hot women when maybe its just not that likely I'll get them.
Never take dating advice from a man who think women choose their partners based on looks. A man who thinks that knows nothing about women.
Ok, if you are talking like Long Term Relationships, there may be some truth.
The #1 thing a woman chooses a man on for a LTR , is the man's social prowess.
Women go for the man who is the life of the party, who is the center of attention, the man who is the boss, who has the money, who has the connections.
But he still has to be either really rich OR at least a 5 or 6 out of 10.
You sound just like another poster we've had here who thinks he is deserving of someone who "matches" him.
Since you've posted a photo of yourself, do you think you are the 9 that you're attracted to?
Hu? I am a little confused here. I just want to be with someone who I'm actually attracted to and feel like I've really got a good "catch".
My opinion of myself is that I am good looking, not hot, but good looking enough that most women would probably say I am attractive enough to date. I just don't get approached by many of the women I want to date, so I'm questioning that.
Hu? I am a little confused here. I just want to be with someone who I'm actually attracted to and feel like I've really got a good "catch".
My opinion of myself is that I am good looking, not hot, but good looking enough that most women would probably say I am attractive enough to date. I just don't get approached by many of the women I want to date, so I'm questioning that.
Why don't you then approach yourself? You said youre a man, put your big boy pants on and get to work. I suggest you approach the most beautiful woman in any environment, and go from there.
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