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Old 01-28-2014, 12:03 PM
 
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So I screwed it up? How?
I'm not sure. Likely to how you responded to her "weird" comments, as you put it. Those were tests, whether she knew she was testing you or not.

When she flat out said she expects to be wined and dined, that she is "high maintenance" woman. How did you respond? With a nod and a "you got it, whatver you want Miss Goddess," or did you make fun of her for being such a princess?

When she mentioned all the dorks she rejects, did you make fun of her for picking losers? Or did you get all nervous about her potentially rejecting you?

When she said she wasn't ready for light touching or sex that night, did you turn it around and make fun of her moving too fast?

You also went into it with the mindset that she was better than you. You've said multiple times that she is the hottest you've ever been out with. You've got her way up on this pedastal and christ you were giddy you got a peck on the lips. I'm sure she could sense that.

It seems like she wanted a guy that could knock her down a peg, a guy she could perceive as higher value than her, I think you failed here.

 
Old 01-28-2014, 12:04 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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I just wonder what her "real" reason was.
She gave you a real reason (not just a "real" one!), but it seems that you cannot accept that!
 
Old 01-28-2014, 12:04 PM
 
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I'm not sure. Likely to how you responded to her "weird" comments, as you put it. Those were tests, whether she knew she was testing you or not.

When she flat out said she expects to be wined and dined, that she is "high maintenance" woman. How did you respond? With a nod and a "you got it, whatver you want Miss Goddess, or did you make fun of her for being such a princess?

When she mentioned all the dorks she rejects, did you make fun of her for picking losers? Or did you get all nervous about her potentially rejecting you?

You also went into it with the mindset that she was better than you. You've said multiple times that she is the hottest you've ever been out with. You've got her way up on this pedastal and christ you were giddy you got a peck on the lips. I'm sure she could sense that.

It seems like she wanted a guy that could knock her down a peg, a guy she could perceive as higher value than her, I think you failed here.
Hmm that makes a lot of sense, thanks.

There's nothing I can do to salvage this, right?
 
Old 01-28-2014, 12:06 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Also, when she agreed to meet and when she let me pick her up, I thought we were going to have sex.
Agreeing to go one date and having you pick her up does NOT mean automatic sex.

 
Old 01-28-2014, 12:07 PM
 
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What page is she on exactly?
 
Old 01-28-2014, 12:07 PM
 
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Hmm that makes a lot of sense, thanks.

There's nothing I can do to salvage this, right?
I edited, you may want to check those items as well.

Nah man, you're out. Move on.
 
Old 01-28-2014, 12:08 PM
 
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Agreeing to go one date and having you pick her up does NOT mean automatic sex.

Chill out Mod snip., that was not the jist of his post. He got what he thought were mixed signals and is wondering where he screwed up.

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Old 01-28-2014, 12:09 PM
 
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I edited, you may want to check those items as well.

Nah man, you're out. Move on.
Thanks. What do you mean by this?

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When she said she wasn't ready for light touching or sex that night, did you turn it around and make fun of her moving too fast?
 
Old 01-28-2014, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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There's nothing I can do to salvage this, right?
No, and don't even try.

In fact, there is nothing to salvage. You didn't necessarily do anything "wrong." She is not feeling it. That's all you need to know.

Your No. 1 priority should be to work on your self-image. The language you use is very revealing about how you feel about yourself.
 
Old 01-28-2014, 12:12 PM
 
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No, and don't even try.

In fact, there is nothing to salvage. You didn't necessarily do anything "wrong." She is not feeling it. That's all you need to know.

Your No. 1 priority should be to work on your self-image. The language you use is very revealing about how you feel about yourself.
how so?
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