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Old 02-05-2014, 05:57 AM
 
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-Been with this girl for about 3 weeks (we've met in person 3 times)
-Has gone very well, great convo and lots of PDA (especially the last time), all that stuff when we meet. We clearly have the chemistry.
-We chat (usually text because of work) every day
-She is a lot of fun to be around and likes to go out at night, bit of the partying type, etc. But she is also into stuff like the bachelor and whatnot, so I am assuming she is the romantic type. Also an athlete (avid tennis player).
-I will be out of town on the 14th because its my dad's bday on the 15th, so this will have to be the 13th.
-In 24, she's 23.

What should I do/get for Valentines Day? I was thinking very simple like a card and then take her out to do something fun like outdoor ice skating or something like that. Let me know if y'all need more info. Thanks!
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Old 02-05-2014, 06:03 AM
 
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My husband got me a heart-shape chocolate box and a cheesy teddy. We met jan 18th, so pretty much 3 weeks on valentine's day, and he dropped it off while I was at work (I worked that night, we couldn't get together). I thought that was perfect.

Ice skating and a card sounds great.
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Old 02-05-2014, 07:22 AM
 
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Thx for the response. I think it would be too much if I took her for ice skating and a card on the 13th, and then dropped off a very small something on the 14th. Would you agree that the 13th plans are enough?
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Old 02-05-2014, 07:24 AM
 
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I think the 13th plans are adequate. You don't want to look too eager since it's only been 3 weeks.
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Thx for the response. I think it would be too much if I took her for ice skating and a card on the 13th, and then dropped off a very small something on the 14th. Would you agree that the 13th plans are enough?
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Old 02-05-2014, 07:25 AM
 
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I think the 13th plans are adequate. You don't want to look too eager since it's only been 3 weeks.
Ok cool sounds good. One last question, I have no idea if she likes to ice skate, so should I tell her before hand what the plans are or just say maybe a day before that I have plans with you, or something like that? I really like this girl and so I dont wanna eff this up
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Old 02-05-2014, 07:34 AM
 
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V-day is a hype for big businesses.

Don't make a big deal out of it.

Take her skating and give her something small, inexpensive that fits her. Like a token that only you guys would understand. Wait till your skating or you both fall and then give it to her.

She will remember the fall, you and the gift.
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Old 02-05-2014, 07:36 AM
 
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Ok cool sounds good. One last question, I have no idea if she likes to ice skate, so should I tell her before hand what the plans are or just say maybe a day before that I have plans with you, or something like that? I really like this girl and so I dont wanna eff this up
Great idea!!

You won't 'eff' it up.

Hold her hand and teach her.
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Old 02-05-2014, 08:27 AM
 
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I thought you meant vasectomy day.
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Old 02-05-2014, 09:04 AM
 
Location: Bronx, New York
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Dating is a compatibility test. I would surprise her...you will find out if she likes surprises and how well she handles new situations.
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Ok cool sounds good. One last question, I have no idea if she likes to ice skate, so should I tell her before hand what the plans are or just say maybe a day before that I have plans with you, or something like that? I really like this girl and so I dont wanna eff this up
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Old 02-05-2014, 09:05 AM
 
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Do something, but not over the top. Be kind of self-deprecating about it without trivializing matters.
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