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Old 09-12-2015, 01:54 PM
 
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Or are they that damn picky?
Probably why now i talk to multiple woman i can't trust woman with what they say about bein interested or show they are interested and in the end not interested
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Old 09-12-2015, 01:56 PM
 
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Yes. We reject them all, even the ones we like.

That is why there are no relationships nowadays.
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Old 09-12-2015, 01:58 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Or are they that damn picky?
Probably why now i talk to multiple woman i can't trust woman with what they say about bein interested or show they are interested and in the end not interested
You can't put a period anywhere in that sentence?? Come on, just a little effort.

No, girls are not looking for a reason. You just have to stop giving them reasons.
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Old 09-12-2015, 02:04 PM
 
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No, we don't need to look for reasons. The reasons are usually right there.

For instance, just based on your post, I could be pretty sure that I probably wouldn't be interested in a guy who choses to name himself after an emotion-less deadened mechanized man, and whose short post has multiple spelling-grammar-punctuation errors.

Looking at your past posts makes this even clearer - you're asking about the bare minimum you need to hook up with a girl?
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Old 09-12-2015, 02:14 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Or are they that damn picky?
Probably why now i talk to multiple woman i can't trust woman with what they say about bein interested or show they are interested and in the end not interested
maybe your not saying the right things ( game ) or your a wanker?

Like most people we are all picky to some extent and look for the best possible so I can't see why they would look for reasons mate

Strange one that very hard to answer
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Old 09-12-2015, 02:14 PM
 
Location: Atlantis
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No, they are not always looking for a reason to reject men.

But approximately 46-68% (with fluctuations depending on the culture, socio-economic conditions of the region and societal expectations) are constantly on the hunt for what might appear subjectively to be a better deal and/or superior mate. As a result that impacts and affects their ability to asses a current potential boyfriend or lover as well as limits their ability to bond to the current partner as well as create a foundation built on intimacy and trust.
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Old 09-12-2015, 02:15 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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Nope.. Guys just supply them whether we're looking or not.
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Old 09-12-2015, 02:20 PM
 
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Or are they that damn picky?
Probably why now i talk to multiple woman i can't trust woman with what they say about bein interested or show they are interested and in the end not interested
No one owes you continued interest. You could be turning them off, they could just feel that there isn't enough in common to continue, they meet other people, or they just decide they don't feel like dating.

All relationships fail except the one that doesn't.

Furthermore, it's the law of supply and demand. More men chase women than women chase men. That's just the way it is. If a woman has 5 men interested in her, there's nothing you can do about it but compete or drop out of the running. Nothing wrong with talking to other women, too. But know that sooner or later, if you want to establish something real, you'll need to step up and talk about a relationship with one of them, otherwise they're just going to cycle through. Most grown women who are looking for a relationship lose interest after a handful of dates if there is no talk about taking it to the next level.
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Old 09-12-2015, 02:36 PM
 
Location: D.C.
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Wow, that woman who told you you needed to get in shape after having sex with her must have done a number on you. Hang it there, things will get better I promise. Just keep hitting the gym.

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Old 09-12-2015, 03:00 PM
 
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No one owes you continued interest. You could be turning them off, they could just feel that there isn't enough in common to continue, they meet other people, or they just decide they don't feel like dating.
I hear this all the time, it's a bit of an asymmetric viewpoint, isn't it? No man owes any women interest either... or man-to-man in the case of a gay scenario, woman-to-woman, etc.

I'm not the greatest mathematician in the world, but how most of us eventually coupling while women being so picky must mean men are equally as picky. My reject rate is pretty low, maybe the average guy is more discerning than myself.
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