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I have a friend who approached a very attractive woman. However he found out she had slept with 10 men and dumped her. He told me "I don't date women who have slept around." In your opinion, do you think it is unfair and wrong for a man to do this?
He's free to dump her for whatever reason, even if that reason is stupid.
Then again he's your friend and you won't even date a girl who drinks lol. You guys should stick to finding girls on World of Warcraft or whatever game is popular.
I have a friend who approached a very attractive woman. However he found out she had slept with 10 men and dumped her. He told me "I don't date women who have slept around." In your opinion, do you think it is unfair and wrong for a man to do this?
No it is not "wrong". We all have a preference list - and we have every right to this. If that is his preference - so be it.
It certainly is not _my_ preference however and I simply do not understand where he is coming from or his head space in this. So long as a persons sexual history has been Legal and that person is Healthy - their number of sexual partners whether high or low could not be less important to me.
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Originally Posted by NilaJones
Because he's missing out on the opportunity to get the best sex, and to learn how to give the best sex. Experience matters.
It might matter to YOU but that does not mean it actually matters. Also experience does not automatically equate to skill or proficiency. A person with 100 partners in their past could just as easily be worse in bed than someone with 0 or 1.
It's not wrong, it's his choice and preference. He should stick to church if he wants to find someone with a very low number.
Women that are in church aren't very different from those that aren't. Was not the case back in 80's and 90's. I would always hear men say that they go to church to find a "good" woman. Things have definitely changed in that arena.
Last edited by usamathman; 03-13-2014 at 08:47 AM..
I must really be getting old. The guy may be a jerk or worse a hypocrite for saying that but since when can having 10 different partners be described as low? I'm way removed from the dating scene but damn, people sure do sleep around a lot now. When I became of age, way back in the 70's, if a guy had 10 partners he was thought of as some kind of gigolo and well, you know what the girl was called. Also might have something to do with rural living vs. city, who knows. All I know is that I really am old.
I must really be getting old. The guy may be a jerk or worse a hypocrite for saying that but since when can having 10 different partners be described as low? I'm way removed from the dating scene but damn, people sure do sleep around a lot now. When I became of age, way back in the 70's, if a guy had 10 partners he was thought of as some kind of gigolo and well, you know what the girl was called. Also might have something to do with rural living vs. city, who knows. All I know is that I really am old.
I am younger than you... but it seems like something happened in the past 15 years where people either lost all control of themselves and just have sex all the time with anyone and don't care... or they are making this stuff up.
There was a thread around here that say you should multiply every woman's number by 10 or 5 or something... seriously! It put my relatively low number in the double digits! And such an idea would make women every woman who waited for marriage suddenly some kind of sex vixen. I just find it weird that it's hard for some people to believe that not everyone sleeps around with just anyone. Not everyone is into meaningless "recreational" sex. And if you show them numbers to back it up, they claim everyone who answered with a low number is lying (especially if they are women).
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