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I never dated this guy. I guess you can say I really liked him a lot from the moment I saw him. I'm 27 and he's 32. He gave me his number and I texted him. We texted back and forth and I told him I was interested in him. We texted more, and talked on the phone. He's out of the state right now due to work, but he's getting back in a month so we planned on meeting then. He told me he was interested too. However, did he show that? No. I was the first to always initiate the text/call. He would like a few of my pictures of facebook. But never initiated the conversation. Did he reply to my texts? Yes, within 20-1 hour. He's very outgoing, social, has many friends, and I'm the complete opposite- quiet, laid-back, few close friends. He said he likes that we are different. I decided to not text him to see if he would. No. It's been 2 days and today is the 3rd day. Is he that busy? He's busy, but he goes on facebook and instagram to post a picture and reply to the comments his friends left. If he has time for that, he has time to at least text me. Yes, you all say he's not interested in me. I know I need to move on. It's not like we ever dated, but why am I having such a hard time letting go? Please give me advice.
I would suggest you spend your time cultivating a new hobby to distract yourself from your obsessiveness. You can't make someone like you or text you or call you or date you.
If he was as interested as you are, He certainly could have taken time to respond, Even if a few hours later. Since you have no history with him you have lost nothing. Use the time and energy to enjoy your life, meet someone else etc.
I think this is very common overall, people meet, exchange numbers, Maybe some texts but it just never goes beyond that for a variety of reasons.
You've started six threads in the last three days about the same guy, seriously? Yes he is losing interest, he probably was very interested but you're driving him away. He's showing interest but you're being obsessive, just relax, if it happens it happens, if it doesn't it won't.
You need to occupy your mind with other things besides him. It's not wise to get so hung up on a person.
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