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Old 04-19-2014, 04:43 AM
 
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34369127.QUOTE=srjth;34369127]...the closer I get to you. The more you make me see (how gay you are).[/quote]

Wrong song. That was a Roberta Flack/Donnie Hathaway collaboration.

Roberta Flack/Peobo Bryson collab was "Tonight I Celebrate my Love With You", which was worse since that never happened for her (Kat).

I had a gay roommate who btw didn't come out to his family but admitted to me he was. I would go.to club with him, met some of his friends/lovers and many of them admitted to me that planned to marry a woman and have children. Many of them delusionaly felt they could leave the life behind after they had all their fun and be successfully married with children without their intended bride/wife ever finding out about their past.
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Old 04-19-2014, 08:56 AM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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34369127.QUOTE=srjth;34369127]...the closer I get to you. The more you make me see (how gay you are).
Wrong song. That was a Roberta Flack/Donnie Hathaway collaboration.

Roberta Flack/Peobo Bryson collab was "Tonight I Celebrate my Love With You", which was worse since that never happened for her (Kat).

I had a gay roommate who btw didn't come out to his family but admitted to me he was. I would go.to club with him, met some of his friends/lovers and many of them admitted to me that planned to marry a woman and have children. Many of them delusionaly felt they could leave the life behind after they had all their fun and be successfully married with children without their intended bride/wife ever finding out about their past.[/quote]

A few years ago, just months after the ex left, I went to a bachelorette party for a woman I worked with and we went to a male strip club. I expected it to be full of screaming women (how naive I was!) but it was full of married men--most didn't even bother to take off their ring.
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Old 04-19-2014, 08:58 AM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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I had a gay roommate who btw didn't come out to his family but admitted to me he was. I would go.to club with him, met some of his friends/lovers and many of them admitted to me that planned to marry a woman and have children. Many of them delusionaly felt they could leave the life behind after they had all their fun and be successfully married with children without their intended bride/wife ever finding out about their past.
A few years ago, just months after the ex left, I went to a bachelorette party for a woman I worked with and we went to a male strip club. I expected it to be full of screaming women (how naive I was!) but it was full of married men--most didn't even bother to take off their ring.
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Old 04-22-2014, 12:27 AM
 
Location: Australia
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No, he is not gay. He is straight. He has no interest in homosexuality. He is strictly a man's man who likes girls. The more important question is, "Are you interested in him?"
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Old 04-22-2014, 02:49 PM
 
Location: Durham, NC
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"child support but made only token efforts to see his daughters"
Thats the sad part.

He must have been a really horny guy or had a great imagination to achieve a full erection with a woman if he was primarely interested in men. some of the other women here who have been in the same position said their guys were not always able to get there, even when the men were in their early 20s with raging hormones.
Sometimes bisexuals lie about being gay to break up with someone. Makes it easier since you don't have to tell them they're just a pain to be around or put up with desperate efforts to keep the relationship going. There's a possibility of that if the sex was good.
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Old 04-22-2014, 04:19 PM
 
Location: USA
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Sometimes bisexuals lie about being gay to break up with someone. Makes it easier since you don't have to tell them they're just a pain to be around or put up with desperate efforts to keep the relationship going. There's a possibility of that if the sex was good.
Never considered that

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A few years ago, just months after the ex left, I went to a bachelorette party for a woman I worked with and we went to a male strip club. I expected it to be full of screaming women (how naive I was!) but it was full of married men--most didn't even bother to take off their ring.
Wow! it's an epidemic
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Old 04-23-2014, 04:39 AM
 
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No, he is not gay. He is straight. He has no interest in homosexuality. He is strictly a man's man who likes girls. The more important question is, "Are you interested in him?"
Yes. Yes, I am interested in him. I've been finding myself going to the gym with a full face of make-up on this week.. So I'd say I do like him! Not sure if I want to proceed, though.

And yes - I can't believe what an epidemic this is! I really don't want to end up like any of the women on this thread, and I feel like that could easily happen. He might just not have realised he likes men yet?
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Old 04-24-2014, 06:35 AM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Sometimes bisexuals lie about being gay to break up with someone. Makes it easier since you don't have to tell them they're just a pain to be around or put up with desperate efforts to keep the relationship going. There's a possibility of that if the sex was good.
Nah, he's happily married to a man now and it was way too obvious that he was really enjoying the gay scene right after we broke up. We actually got along well for most of our marriage.
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Old 04-24-2014, 06:50 AM
 
Location: I don't know..If you find me, let me know.
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Congratulation...
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Old 04-26-2014, 05:52 AM
 
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Thanks!

Updates: I saw him yesterday and he stared at my boobs and then heavily critiqued my shoe choice. The saga continues...
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