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Old 04-22-2014, 07:46 PM
 
Location: Went around the corner & now I'm lost!!!!
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Some guys get all they luck, some guys do nothing but complain......
LOL you all are comical... on a roll
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Old 04-22-2014, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Went around the corner & now I'm lost!!!!
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Just a simple: "Do you have any plans this weekend?"

Listen and try to incorporate him in your plans.

You: "I was thinking about checking out this movie this weekend. Have you seen it?"
Simple and to the point; good advice
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Old 04-23-2014, 06:59 AM
 
Location: Pa
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LOL, now I would HAVE to go out with a guy who does that LOL...no joke, I would ... very creative
He's hot go get him!
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Old 04-24-2014, 02:34 AM
 
Location: CA
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If you want a guy who is attractive, you're going to have to compete with other women. Attractive people(men and women alike) are in demand. It is a competition to find a mate, just like with anything else in life.
Nope. Life is only that way if you choose to frame it that way.

Again, a mature, secure man doesn't go for the on vying for attention, but discerns who actually suits him personally.
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Old 04-24-2014, 09:24 AM
 
Location: Terra
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I ask them out.
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Old 04-24-2014, 07:04 PM
 
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Nope. Life is only that way if you choose to frame it that way.

Again, a mature, secure man doesn't go for the on vying for attention, but discerns who actually suits him personally.

Everything you want in life, there's competitors. A mate, job, promotion, sports. Mature, secure men don't have to pursue men because they're attractive to them. Many women will be after them.
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Old 04-24-2014, 07:11 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Everything you want in life, there's competitors. A mate, job, promotion, sports. Mature, secure men don't have to pursue men because they're attractive to them. Many women will be after them.
You pursue men?
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Old 04-24-2014, 08:07 PM
 
Location: S. Florida
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I'm quite interested in a classmate (I'm in my last year at university) of mine and I'm not sure if he feels the same way towards me.

Guys, how would you act or what would you say to a woman you're interested in?
I am not a guy. But I have been married almost 20 years (to the same guy). Guys like women to be direct. They are not mind readers. Nor do they pick up on subtle signals. If you are interested in him, you need to first make him notice you. Are you two friends? Have you smiled at him? Chatted with him? Got his phone number? Texted him?

Just be direct and ask him to join you for (fill in the blank) Coffee? A drink? Lunch? The library? Whatever it is. If he has no interest in you whatsoever, he will find reasons to say "No."
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