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Old 04-08-2014, 06:53 PM
 
Location: locked in a castle
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**Please note, that I a not fat and this doesn't reflect on my own physical appearance, so shuddup**

This occurred to me that plenty of guys DO like fat chicks, but some are afraid because of what their friends will think. We have men in our world who secretly desire delectable double chins, and a mouthful of muffin top--Sadly, they are paired with smaller women to save face.

So my question is not for the guys that desire larger women, but or the FRIENDS of the guys who long for such women.

It's usually young, dumb, and shallow guys that rip on their friends for having an OPEN relationship with a bigger girl-- But how 'bout you 30 and older gents?

Do you judge them? Do you think they can do better in the looks terms of finding a mater? Do you consider them less shallow or look obsessed?
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Old 04-08-2014, 07:06 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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They're my friends. And besides, who am I to judge.

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We have men in our world who secretly desire delectable double chins, and a mouthful of muffin top
Lol, smh
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Old 04-08-2014, 07:09 PM
 
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I believe a thread on this has been started before.
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Old 04-08-2014, 07:14 PM
 
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I believe a thread on this has been started before.
I noticed, but I also don't care.
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Old 04-08-2014, 07:17 PM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Not at all. As long as she treats him right, then that's all that counts in my book.
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Old 04-08-2014, 07:20 PM
 
Location: The Puget Sound
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No. I may not think big girls are attractive, but I have friends that do. It's cool with me.
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Old 04-08-2014, 07:26 PM
 
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I have a huge problem if they settle with a big girl


If they do legitimately find overweight women attractive (as baffling as that is to me), then I am fine with that
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Old 04-08-2014, 07:26 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Date who you want.Others won't be there 24/7 on how you live your life.
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Old 04-08-2014, 08:14 PM
 
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No but at the same time there's lots of social pressure on guys to only find certain types of women attractive physically. There are dudes who basically hide to their male friends about liking bigger girls
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Old 04-08-2014, 08:54 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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No but at the same time there's lots of social pressure on guys to only find certain types of women attractive physically. There are dudes who basically hide to their male friends about liking bigger girls
I agree with this. There is an immense amount of social pressure on guys to suppress their attraction to bigger girls. If there were not, we would not be having this discussion because it would be as mundane as saying "some like blondes, others like redheads."

In answer to the OP, no, I do not have a problem with friends dating bigger girls. In fact, I can relate. I've dated many bigger girls myself.
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