How bad is it to have no experience at all? What can be done? (movies, women)

[video646]

At age 23? Nobody ever guesses it, and some don't even believe it. But the truth is, I have not had sex and never even kissed or held hands with a girl. It's starting to bother me a lot and make me wonder if it's ever going to happen. When it finally does happen, will it be obvious that I'm inexperienced?

[Djuna]

Just don't do this please;

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[srjth]

Originally Posted by video646

At age 23? Nobody ever guesses it, and some don't even believe it. But the truth is, I have not had sex and never even kissed or held hands with a girl. It's starting to bother me a lot and make me wonder if it's ever going to happen. When it finally does happen, will it be obvious that I'm inexperienced?

No.

[jambo101]

Mother nature has a way of making it all come natural, dont worry about it..

[Auraliea]

This has been on my mind as well.....

I don't think there is a real time where it becomes a problem, or at least it shouldn't be. It's just another way to make to someone feel bad about who they are. Being confident in your choices and how you go about life is really the only thing you can do. If you genuinely feel like you are missing out on something then try to do something about it.

I know it can be difficult to stick to your guns when it seems like everyone believes and follows the same thing, it is human nature to want to fit in and be accepted but in this society it's really not worth it most of the time. It is really best to do what is best for you. I like to believe that person will come along eventually. They like you for who you are, and not for the experience you have or lack there of.

[usamathman]

Three things you need to start doing....

(1) Getting out more and interacting with women.

(2) Reading up on female anatomy..... foreplay....verbal seduction.

(3) Improve yourself physically and mentally (working out, grooming, learning, etc)


The opportunities for sex will come as you improve yourself and put yourself in position to meet more women.

Take this time to sharpen your sword/develop yourself.

[QuestOfTruth]

I think for the most part, this is a problem because society is obsessed with sex and the hookup culture is everywhere, movies, posters, media and friends. Men have been falsely led to believe that their self worth is linked to female validation and 'getting laid' and so on.

You can either ignore the peer pressure and the conformation and just concern yourself with more important things such as living life, getting to know yourself, focusing on what you want to achieve or become or you can worry about it, allow it to affect your self esteem and become like so many others in the rush to lose their virginity or have 'experience'.

[hawaiiancoconut]

You wont even be thinking about when it does happen.

[cindersslipper]

I want a dollar for every post on CD relationships by a male virgin asking how he can get laid.

I would be able to retire tomorrow.

[Meyerland]

Go to church, temple, or synagogue to meet up with other virgins. ( whatever religion you are affiliated with.)They will respect you for waiting. Seriously.