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Yes, I don't want a piece of paper. What's wrong with it?
I wonder if your kids wish you had that piece of paper when they are old enough to realize that their parents are not like their friends' parents, and people start commenting and making assumptions about their family.
I guess as long as you don't have to be "burdened" by that piece of paper you can have what you want, and the four others in your family just have to accept it.
I am sure you can find some explanation for them as to why you won't marry their mother as she hopes you will.
The minute OP said, "Women this, women that" I already assumed he doesn't quite love her as much as he thinks? Love encompasses understanding. He no clues how she feels after being together for a decade? Talk about relationship intimacy.
Part of the OP's argument against marriage (the part about guaranteeing financial security through a formal contract showing more concern for money than love) is actually similar to the arguments I see against prenuptial agreements. Obviously they're not the exact same situation, but I do find the responses to the theory interesting.
In any event, OP, asking your wife directly if she really has concerns over this would be advisable. Since your view on this is set in stone, there's no sense in wasting everybody's time on this, just go ahead and find out whether this is actually an issue or not.
In any event, OP, asking your wife directly if she really has concerns over this would be advisable. Since your view on this is set in stone, there's no sense in wasting everybody's time on this, just go ahead and find out whether this is actually an issue or not.
This is the third same story thread I came across.
These clueless men actually believe a woman to stay with her man for many years and have kids with him, would not openly or secretly wish for that due marriage...well, Surprise!!!
He also seems to think that a woman wanting financial security for her children through marriage is somehow "all about the money."
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