what do I do when my bf cheats and ghosts me? (dating, boyfriend)
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My boyfriend is taking his bar exam this coming Tuesday. I know he's stressed out and very busy. But he was being distant- to the point where he wouldn't even message me the entire day. When I told him, He got mad saying I was stressing him out. But I just felt like it was a little off because he would still text me here and there before, but all of a sudden he got very cold, mean, and just didn't communicate. He would ignore my texts even after reading them and when I called, he wouldn't pick up at first. When he did he wouldn't say anything and just yell leave me alone. I messaged him saying I won’t bother him and that I miss him and to study hard. He replied saying he loves me.*
But yesterday, I found out he’s on a dating app. He put the location to a different city. We are in VA, and he put his location to LA. So this whole time he was telling me I was stressing him out for being distant, he was talking to other girls on the app. I messaged him how he can do this to me. He read the messages and he hasn't replied for 2 days now. He totally ghosted me. He made me believe I was stressing him out but he was distant because he was talking to other girls. He didn't even have the decency to reply or end things with me and just completely ignored me. I can't sleep, eat, I am just crying and feel so betrayed and numb. He tells me he loves and does this???? What do I do????
Well, you can either do the extremely obvious and cut him off and never speak to him again, or you can create a new name and make up a new story, since this one sounds too ridiculous to be real.
1. He's not your boyfriend. You are in his rotation.
2. He is not cheating on you.
3. Homeboy is literally yelling at you and dogging you out, and you're getting depressed, stressing, and crying for what? There is no love here, there isn't even a relationship. You are living in a fantasy world.
4. WAKE UP and stop dealing with jerks/idiots.
5. See the world for what it is and stop falling in love with your imagination.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Why would a person in Virginia set up a profile in Louisiana?
Odd one.
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