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why is it wrong to be frustrated, bitter, angry over being a late bloomer?
Its not a question of right or wrong. Being bitter and angry is just a waste of a person's life. Where a person once would have taken joy in doing something but because of bitterness and anger they abstain thus increasing said persons loneliness. Its nothing more than a self fulfilling downward spiral. I understand your dilemma very well as a late bloomer myself only much older than you. Even if I never have a relationship, etc., I will not allow bitterness and anger to ruin my life.
no it isnt , some men are born with the ability to impress women , most are in between and some are terrible
people have a lot less control over their situation than society conditions them into believing
ya I wonder where guys learn how to flirt and talk to women, approach them the right way in order to get a girlfriend, or did they not learn it, it was something they always knew how?
Its not a question of right or wrong. Being bitter and angry is just a waste of a person's life. Where a person once would have taken joy in doing something but because of bitterness and anger they abstain thus increasing said persons loneliness. Its nothing more than a self fulfilling downward spiral. I understand your dilemma very well as a late bloomer myself only much older than you. Even if I never have a relationship, etc., I will not allow bitterness and anger to ruin my life.
ya that's why it angers me and pisses me off whenever people say it is never too late, you have plenty of time, better late than never
ya I wonder where guys learn how to flirt and talk to women, approach them the right way in order to get a girlfriend, or did they not learn it, it was something they always knew how?
People learn how to interact with others from the time they are infants and recognize that other people are separate from themselves.
Body language, facial expressions, humor, conversation, empathy...these are part of human social development, and becomes hard wired in the brain from childhood. Of course, some people are better at it than others, but those who don't do it well often fail because they are not really interested in other people. They don't see others as individuals, and therefore do not appreciate or treat others as individuals.
Instead, they choose to apply a math formula or sweeping generalization to other people and their relationships with them.
If you have good credit then you can be approved by many various sources for a loan so that you can have your own house away from your parents.
Try drinking lots of teas and eating fruits for dinner and veggies for the rest of your calories. After enough weeks, your body will stop craving junk food and meats and such. Never eat until you're full. Always eat just until you're not hungrey anymore. But get in shape FOR YOU so that you are where you feel is right for you as an individual.
You may want to move to a different city or state so that you have exposed to meeting different types of people.
You need to be willing to strike up conversations with strangers every day. and offer them your email address (your card) to further keep in touch. Asking a female for her phone number can be too threatening. If giving out your email address to strangers that you strike up convos with isn't working after a period of months, then maybe start asking THEM for their email address to keep in touch. Then, through email ask out the ones that you seriously felt a connection with.
Go to the mall and meet women. That's where all of the women are at one time or another - the mall.
Say "hi, you look fimiliar" or anything you can think of to strike up a conversation. Eventually you will come across someone who fits well with your personality and then BOOM - from there you can just be yourself and if someone likes you for you they won't mind about your lack of relationship history. You don't have any STDs, so that is a big plus.
It's a numbers game, it's about talking to as many females as possible every day and then at some point you will find someone where it just clicks and doesn't feel like effort
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