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maybe some trust issues, maybe. I won't deny that. but if you want to get down to the nitty gritty, i am just a neat freak. the idea of rubbing against a sweaty guy with hot breath detests me. or how couples fart, burp, etc around each other, i don't find that at all appealing. so if i can't get past that, how the heck can i become sexual involved with someone?
im a 27 year old woman and haven't been in a relationship. ever. i have had sex, but i can probably count the amount of times on one hand. i am not religious i don't practice abstinence (at least not on purpose LOL) i feel as if ill be alone for the rest of my life if i keep at it. :-/ i think very highly of myself and i consider myself attractive. i regularly encounter men attracted to me. but that never goes anywhere. with all that said, i am in no way a saint. i watch a lot of porn and i love men. dare i say i love sex (at least the thought of it). i am not confused or conflicted with my sexuality in no way shape or form. i will get the usual trolls for such an intimate question, but is there is anyone else out there who struggled with being physical with others because of their 'neatness'?
It is not "neatness" is it a phobia that you will not get past without serious professional therapy.
The celebrity/comedian Howie Mandel has the same thing.
Seek help immediately if you really want to get past this issue.
not sure what you mean by that :/ i eat popcorn off the floor and week old lunch meat so im not sure what exactly it means to have ocd. i dont like the sound of someone farting next to me just like a friend of mind doesnt like clowns. just not sure where to go with 'ocd' and what that entails
maybe some trust issues, maybe. I won't deny that. but if you want to get down to the nitty gritty, i am just a neat freak. the idea of rubbing against a sweaty guy with hot breath detests me. or how couples fart, burp, etc around each other, i don't find that at all appealing. so if i can't get past that, how the heck can i become sexual involved with someone?
im a 27 year old woman and haven't been in a relationship. ever. i have had sex, but i can probably count the amount of times on one hand. i am not religious i don't practice abstinence (at least not on purpose LOL) i feel as if ill be alone for the rest of my life if i keep at it. :-/ i think very highly of myself and i consider myself attractive. i regularly encounter men attracted to me. but that never goes anywhere. with all that said, i am in no way a saint. i watch a lot of porn and i love men. dare i say i love sex (at least the thought of it). i am not confused or conflicted with my sexuality in no way shape or form. i will get the usual trolls for such an intimate question, but is there is anyone else out there who struggled with being physical with others because of their 'neatness'?
Honestly honey, I believe the only way you will get comfortable with another persons physicality is when you actually take the time to fall in love before you have sex.
Even if you enjoy certain aspects of sex now, it will all be so much more "appealing" and enjoyable when there is love in the equation.
It is not "neatness" is it a phobia that you will not get past without serious professional therapy.
The celebrity/comedian Howie Mandel has the same thing.
Seek help immediately if you really want to get past this issue.
howie mandel wont even shake a persons hand. i shake people's hands all the time. i work in home health care so one would think this would be a non issue, given i watch old people relieve themselves on the floor on a daily basis. (sorry for the visual). but when it comes down to me and someone in an private intimate setting, i get serious about personal hygiene. the point i am making is i am not this way in all facets of my life, just with sex. unless we just got out the bathtub and plan to get back in the bathtub, it's not going down. sorry, just being honest. i cant be the only person that feels that way. (or i just might be LOL)
not sure what you mean by that :/ i eat popcorn off the floor and week old lunch meat so im not sure what exactly it means to have ocd. i dont like the sound of someone farting next to me just like a friend of mind doesnt like clowns. just not sure where to go with 'ocd' and what that entails
w/o getting too graphic, how did your previous sexual encounters occur?
OMG thanks for making me laugh, i needed that LOL .
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