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Old 09-24-2014, 08:17 AM
 
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Guy is in Indiana. He met girl in North Carolina about a year before he moved to Indiana for work. He came back to see her every month or two and they spend their whole time together. But he doesn't really want a serious committed relationship. So are they FWB? Will a guy travel that far to just hook up? What is going on here?
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:24 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Ask the guy.
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:30 AM
 
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Ask the guy.


I want to hear some opinions first before I do.
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:32 AM
 
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Men have been known to travel father than that for a weekend with me.

Not sure why this is surprising.
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:35 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Men have been known to travel father than that for a weekend with me.

Not sure why this is surprising.

It isn't. I've done it, and I've had people do it with me as well.
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:36 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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So are they FWB?
They would know that; we don't.

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Will a guy travel that far to just hook up?
Men have.

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What is going on here?
I would think their relationship is none of your business!
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:37 AM
 
Location: Earth
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Sure. Some guys aren't picky about hook ups. Plus who's to say he doesn't have a woman close to where he already is. A guy can have more than one hook-up girl. So the NC one is just his NC hook-up. He may have an Indiana hook-up girl too. Variety is good for many, even if they travel for it.

Like a poster here. His ex girlfriend flew to Vegas-or somewhere- to sleep with some other guy, under the guise she was visiting her brother, who was there, but seeing him was a bonus, not the reason lol.

Another guy I know has a serious girlfriend. But he has a FB he sees every few weeks, when he feels like it.
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:39 AM
 
Location: D.C.
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I've done this before as well several times, and they have visited my place. Sounds like FWB to me.
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:40 AM
 
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Men have been known to travel father than that for a weekend with me.

Not sure why this is surprising.
Just to hook up?



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Sure. Some guys aren't picky about hook ups. Plus who's to say he doesn't have a woman close to where he already is. A guy can have more than one hook-up girl. So the NC one is just his NC hook-up. He may have an Indiana hook-up girl too. Variety is good for many, even if they travel for it.

Like a poster here. His ex girlfriend flew to Vegas-or somewhere- to sleep with some other guy, under the guise she was visiting her brother, who was there, but seeing him was a bonus, not the reason lol.

Another guy I know has a serious girlfriend. But he has a FB he sees every few weeks, when he feels like it.
Not me. I would not fly that far to just hook up with someone else unless I am really interested in him.
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Old 09-24-2014, 08:42 AM
 
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They would know that; we don't.


Men have.


I would think their relationship is none of your business!

lol maybe you shouldn't have response to this thread then? You took time to respond to my thread, and tell me it's none of my business? If you don't like the way I go at other ppl busssiness, then don't response. Simple as 1-2-3 .
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