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View Poll Results: Is a big difference in sexual history an issue for you or not for a possible LTR?
Yes, I am male 12 30.00%
Yes, I am female 9 22.50%
No, I am male 9 22.50%
No, I am female 10 25.00%
Voters: 40. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 09-27-2014, 11:22 PM
 
Location: Montana
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Number of past sexual partners is relative (at least it should be for non hypocrits) to the number you have had. If you have had 20 then you should be ok with him/her having 20.
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Old 09-27-2014, 11:48 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Number of past sexual partners is relative (at least it should be for non hypocrits) to the number you have had. If you have had 20 then you should be ok with him/her having 20.
I have only had sex with one woman in my life. I would not date a woman who has had sex with over 20 men. You asked, I answered.
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Old 09-27-2014, 11:52 PM
 
Location: Montana
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For me yes it is an issue. I am a very monogamous guy with high standards, I don't date just anyone. I also only date one woman at a time and of course only have relationships with one at a time. I don't do casual relationships, only committed ones. Because of this I've had sex with just two women in my lifetime.
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Old 09-27-2014, 11:57 PM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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For me yes it is an issue. I am a very monogamous guy with high standards, I don't date just anyone. I also only date one woman at a time and of course only have relationships with one at a time. I don't do casual relationships, only committed ones. Because of this I've had sex with just two women in my lifetime.
Like me.... I cannot do many at the same time. I don't know why, but some people I know one date to day, and 4th date with another guy tomorrow....and spending week end with another one,
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Old 09-28-2014, 12:22 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I don't even want to know, because I wouldn't be able to take a girl seriously who has been with a ton of dudes.
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Old 09-28-2014, 05:31 AM
 
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People with such a large gap in sexual history tend to have large difference in other things which would make them incompatible.

For example the guy who is highly promiscuous more times than not is an outgoing social butterfly who has tons of friends and parties all the time.

Meanwhile the girl who is a virgin or only had one boyfriend is probably shy, boring, not a people person and not outgoing
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Old 09-28-2014, 05:37 AM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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If, at now age 60, I was in the market probably not since my target group would likely be in that age bracket.

Now, 40 years ago at 20 and considering the times and my youth, probably. But maybe not. I was never that curious about the pasts of those women I dated.
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Old 09-28-2014, 07:14 AM
 
Location: Pa
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He can't have more than me.
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Old 09-28-2014, 07:45 AM
 
Location: Subconscious Syncope, USA (Northeastern US)
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Number of past sexual partners is relative (at least it should be for non hypocrits) to the number you have had. If you have had 20 then you should be ok with him/her having 20.

It shouldnt matter at all. It can matter if you live in a small secluded community of gossip-mongers - but even then, you can simply move to the next town or another state even.

We were just passing time until we found each other. Can I possibly expect my husband to have remained celibate for more than 10 years while he was waiting for "the one" to grow up, lol?
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Old 09-28-2014, 09:09 AM
 
Location: "Silicon Valley" (part of San Francisco Bay Area, California, USA)
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I definitely want someone who has a higher number than myself! I'm a major pervert and she would have to be open to broadening her horizons. ;-) Plus, since I haven't done it yet, she would have to show me the ropes in terms of basic things. Most of that is just instinct of course, but I mean, how to do things in the best way. lol.
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