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Old 12-15-2014, 08:19 AM
 
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Details are I was with some friends, she came up to us with her friend, and it was just awkward.
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Old 12-15-2014, 08:26 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Details are I was with some friends, she came up to us with her friend, and it was just awkward.
Not surprising since y'all had an audience.
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Old 12-15-2014, 01:10 PM
 
Location: Oregon, formerly Texas
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Details are I was with some friends, she came up to us with her friend, and it was just awkward.
I don't really understand why that alone made you think it wouldn't work. You decided this right after she "came up to" you? A lot of girls go out with their friends. Tinder meetings are often kind of awkward at first. Seems like you've given up really quickly.
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Old 12-15-2014, 01:20 PM
 
Location: Canada
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I don't really understand why that alone made you think it wouldn't work. You decided this right after she "came up to" you? A lot of girls go out with their friends. Tinder meetings are often kind of awkward at first. Seems like you've given up really quickly.
I think he already knew he was uncomfortable with the age difference, hence the post.

Maybe individually, this one girl could be more mature for her age, but no matter how old anyone looks or feels, that still doesn't change the fact that she is 23.
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Old 12-15-2014, 01:27 PM
 
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Yes, I think we probably both had a high burdern for things just to feel 100% right or else end it quick because of the age difference.
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Old 12-15-2014, 01:56 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I think he already knew he was uncomfortable with the age difference, hence the post.

Maybe individually, this one girl could be more mature for her age, but no matter how old anyone looks or feels, that still doesn't change the fact that she is 23.
In addition, it probably worked against her to bring her friends, since the gang of them all together probably emphasized the age difference.

She probably "seemed" younger (in a negative way) in the context of her friends than she would have one on one.

It's better this way.
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Old 12-15-2014, 02:06 PM
 
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I agree and my buddy was a bit younger than me but his buddy is probably 10 years older than me.
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Old 01-31-2015, 04:50 PM
 
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My boyfriend is 51 and I'm 36. I have no problem with our age difference but I often wonder what other people think. I haven't told my family about him yet because I'm worried about what they will think or say.
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Old 01-31-2015, 05:59 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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Meeting on Tinder should tell you how long this will last....when I clicked on this I figured I'd be saying "bragging or complaining?"
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Old 01-31-2015, 08:07 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma
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We met on Tinder.
To answer your question, yes, it's legal to have sex with her.
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